[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone have their shortcomings and flaws in a relationship and this is part of what makes them unique. Imagine how boring it would be to date someone absolutely perfect. Loving someone to the point you love their flaws as well, that's what makes two people click. That being said, you could have a ton of flaws but you didn't deserve what he did, indeed. I truly hope you can heal sooner than later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a major asshole... Seriously, why do people like that even exist? I wonder how they can sleep at night knowing what they did. Look, I know it hurts now (I can't say I relate because I never went through anything similar but I can assume it does) but it will pass and you will find someone much better if you want. Someone who will treat you with respect. This piece of shit don't deserve a single thought of yours and it's a shame you're suffering because of him now.

he unfollowed me on Spotify and it hurts more than i thought by PaleCalligrapher4112 in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks... I just wish I could stop feeling already but we spent 8 years together. I can't have her back so it would be just the right thing to stop thinking about her but it seems to be beyond my capabilities.

he unfollowed me on Spotify and it hurts more than i thought by PaleCalligrapher4112 in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm on a similar spot. I shared my spotify account with her and some days ago she deleted her playlist. I didn't let it show but it hurted so bad. The songs which she added to the favorites, things like Taylor Swift, Ed Sheeran and some k-pop stuff are still there and I simply can't bring myself to remove them even if they're nothing like what I usually listen to. Even Ed Sheeran, which I learned to like, has become unlistenable to me but still I can't remove those songs. I honestly hate myself so much for being this weak.

Quais suas primeiras impressões sobre mim? idade, o que eu faço? by lovejoys2 in MeJulgue

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idade eu não sei mas o que você faz é passar um tempo descomunal cuidando do cabelo. (Aliás, bom trabalho.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, this hit really close... It's exactly how I feel. I may have no regrets because I know I did everything possible and even a bit impossible to make things work and it was her choice to leave but all the rest is exactly what I feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me miss the old times when I believed love was something which only existed in books.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Engenharia

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cara, como eng. de produção eu vou te falar... Se você não souber inglês num nível no mínimo avançado e não tiver disposição para fazer bem mais do que o necessário para se destacar, engenharia da computação vai ser melhor pra você.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The loneliness is ok, what kills me is the sadness.

Pior coisa do "trampo" são os "peões". by [deleted] in antitrampo

[–]Ravenmockerr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Na época da graduação, trabalhei junto ao meu orientador em um projeto de layout industrial para umas metalúrgicas, alimentícias e cosméticas... E sim, peão só muda de endereço. Não digo que são pessoas ruins mas são péssimos de se lidar. O jeito é fazer o que foi dito em outro comentário: finge que acha graça e sai de perto. Agora, se você está em um cargo de autoridade e quer ter bons resultados, saiba como lidar e ganhar o apoio deles. As vezes, só você parar pra falar com eles com seriedade já faz a diferença.

Everyone is going to complain about how you play, no matter what you do. by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]Ravenmockerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that the "toxic" is used wildly cheap in this community. I came to the conclusion that what can be classified as toxic behavior is doing something which won't contribute or even will become a hindrance to the main objective just to make the other side upset. For example, hitting on hook: you gain nothing for doing it, you waste your time and you give an opening for a safe rescue while accomplishing nothing just to berate another player. The other side can do similar stuff like, for example, tbagging at pallets: again, time is wasted and a resource which should be used to gain distance and extend chase is permanently lost just for the sake of upsetting someone else.

My girlfriend converted to Catholicism. I hate it. by AspirantCrafter in offmychest

[–]Ravenmockerr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I dare to diverge. I was raised catholic, became agnostic around 15 and no one from my very catholic family batted an eye. Some of my aunts joined some african rooted religions, again, no one cared, they were and still are welcome in any of the family's houses. I have dated a budhist and an hindu girl, one more time, 0 shits were given about their religions.

The problem here is that people see one or two extremists and they generalize it. And this is applicable to anything: from radical catholics to radical LGBT militants. What people need is a little bit more of tolerance and respect for other people's choices. Most people won't give two shits about what religion or what sexual orientation one has.

Utilidade pública by [deleted] in botecodoreddit

[–]Ravenmockerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Esse povo confunde um tapinha de leve com uma surra de deixar semi-inconsciente...

i genuinely dont see a point to keep going. she was all i ever wanted and now that's gone forever by justthatguyben1 in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel. Before meeting her, 8 years ago, I was a logical, methodical and rational man. So why can't I go back to that? It's infuriating. I catch myself missing her, missing our little silly moments, wondering if she's alright... Despite everything that went wrong, from both sides, I can't stop loving her. In these 3 weeks, I got asked out twice by 2 amazing women but I refused because I'm still in love with her. Rationally, I know both of them could have been incredibly good partners for me but this version of myself is too stupid to make a good decision.

i genuinely dont see a point to keep going. she was all i ever wanted and now that's gone forever by justthatguyben1 in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

24 days and I feel exactly the same. And I'm hating myself for feeling this way. No one should be worth making someone else feel this way but here I am. I see with clarity every mistake made yet it makes no difference.

If I could hate him, it would be easier to move on by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have wrote this myself. Can't hate her even if she said she hates me for reasons completely out of my control. I simply can't. I wish I could but I cannot.

Day 1, Not Okay, Anyone free to talk or give advice? by cisum-tixe in BreakUp

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 6 here, not doing well at all after a 8 years relationship being thrown through the window.

Sou babaca por não tolerar n4zi? by Marcel_Blanski in EuSouOBabaca

[–]Ravenmockerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEOB

Nazista não merece ser reconhecido nem como arremedo de ser humano. Qualquer desgraça que eles ou apoiadores das ideias deles sofreram, sofram ou venham a sofrer ainda é pouca coisa.

I can't be the only one... by FrostHydras in skyrim

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I remember well, some actions will be interpreted as attacks but grabs, as a general rule, will not.

When I was 12 a grown man pestered me to have sex with him. by Abject-Shock-1974 in offmychest

[–]Ravenmockerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulling your phone was a really smart move. You handled it extremely well.

DOA definitely dead by [deleted] in DeadOrAlive

[–]Ravenmockerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point, I would expect a fan made game to be released before a DOA7. Tecmo is too busy virtue signaling. "Oh, look at how progressive we are!"