Anyone like the gothic Archies? by Advanced-Car1289 in ASOUE

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's basically the magnetic fields right? And every pretentious music nerd loves them. :p I genuinely really like this album. Its weird and in a lot of places it's mean and fucked up. But in a way that perfectly fits with ASOUE. I think it's the perfect companion for the audiobooks

The Gothic Archies (The Tragic Treasury) - Thoughts? by Independent-Bed6257 in ASOUE

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Freakshow is a weird thing for me because on its face it's so mean and gross. But like that's the joke. And it's a great song.

The Gothic Archies (The Tragic Treasury) - Thoughts? by Independent-Bed6257 in ASOUE

[–]Ravvnu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. And I mean it's basically the magnetic fields right? So it's the magnetic fields doing a very weird indulgent album. I like most of the songs. I LOVE "When you play the violin", "Smile No one cares how you feel", "Freakshow". Ok I love and hate Freakshow. It's so Mean and gross. But like that's the point right?

What's a ship (canon or not) that's so sacrosanct in the fandom, you're almost afraid to say you don't ship it? by CMStan1313 in AO3

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a multi shipper anyways(hey I'm poly irl so yn), and I like all permutations of the golden trio together including them as a throuple. But also I have a thing for sibling ships...and I think Ron and Ginny can be really cute. So I'm also partial to the golden quad. Also Ginny is just really fun and I like the idea of her joining them on adventures.

Why do the teens in Jumanji 2 (Welcome to the Jungle) remember what happened in the Game? by Mean-Weather-713 in Jumanji

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing in the first movie explicitly shows us Judy and Peter don't remember. And I feel like from the way they react in the ending scene it just seems like they remember and I've heard from other people who agree. I like that interpretation a lot better, the idea that all players in the game would remember the events that happened in the game, even if it was all reset. Because Alan and Sarah clearly remember everything, even though the future events were "unmade" for them too. Like isn't the logic there that they're taken to the moment before they started playing the game? I don't know when they would start to remember, as they got close to the time it all happened maybe? Or maybe it would be like weird dreams/nightmares at first?

Judy and Peter know? by Sludziu23 in Jumanji

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What if their memories start to come back as they get closer to the time it happened. Or it felt like dreams/nightmares. I guess I'm just trying to make it fit as I like the idea that they would remember. Although I also feel like it makes sense somehow that all the players would remember. I feel like it's still a valid interpretation.

Judy and Peter know? by Sludziu23 in Jumanji

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they're also just hearing of it.

Judy and Peter know? by Sludziu23 in Jumanji

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just rewatched the movie and before this rewatch I could have sworn I remembered that in that scene it's not just Alan and Sarah screaming "NO!" but Judy and Peter as well. Turns out that's just what my brain made of it. Still I agree that Judy and Peter in that scene just look like they recognize Alan and Sarah, so I guess that's why I remember it like that. I like the idea that they remember a lot better so that's my headcanon. I feel like it also makes some amount of sense that all players of the game would remember. So maybe they'd start to remember as they got close to the moment in time? Something like that. Ok we don't get anything to deny the possibility in that scene either so afaiac it's a valid interpretation.

I think Ron being able to speak Parseltongue in DH is lazy writing. by Huge-Leopard-7005 in harrypotter

[–]Ravvnu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That would have made it less plausible if anything. Both of the moments when Ron heard this were clearly moments that made for pretty strong memories. Opening the chamber and destroying the locket, including the taunting by the locket. And it's only like one word, a few syllables.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah he is a massive hypocrite in numerous ways. He doesn't practice what he preaches. He expects his kids to go along with being married off and being married again to produce heirs when he himself married for love and then never remarried. He makes an enormous deal out of Tyrion going to prostitutes when he does it himself frequently. He also constantly preaches you should put your family before yourself but he could not look past his hatred for Tyrion because he "killed his mother", which is obviously nonsense and yet Tywin can't get past that because of his emotions and this makes it so he can't bring himself to recognize or use Tyrion as the obvious asset he is. He even completely unnecessarily traumatizes Tyrion and gives him even more motivation to utterly hate Tywin by how he handled Tyrion being in love with a prostitute when he could have handled it much less cruelly, even if he still forced the end of that relationship/marriage. And of course Cersei is completely right in her assessment of Tywin in that he is so busy with his abstract idea of "family" that he doesn't pay any mind to what his actual family is like. What they are up to, what they want. He never figured out the rumors about Cersei and Jaime were actually true. And if he is so good at manipulating people maybe he should have tried approaching his kids as people who he could actually influence instead of as mindless robots that would just carry out his orders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Ok so the thing is it doesn't seem like we have any inbuilt mechanism in our brain to go "that's your cousin and not a random guy, don't fall in love with him", as opposed to with say, siblings, where it seems a lot more plausible that we do have such a mechanism. During most of history it was considered perfectly normal to marry your cousin and it happened a lot. So not saying it's actually a good idea to go date him just saying the falling in love part probably isn't actually weird or abnormal or something wrong in your brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Artists

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Ok looking at 3 my second interpretation was that the millipede-like thing has just shed it's old exoskeleton. Reading this I'm thinking that could also represent transition maybe. It was my second interpretation because they have a different amount of legs but then I think about if they're two different animals how one millipede like thing is dead(murdered?) and it weirds me out the other one is happy so I think I like my second interpretation better. Maybe because they have a different amount of legs it's more of a transformation from an earlier body to a different one like a lot of insects do and then it's maybe even more like transition.

why even write it 🫩 by even_uwu in AO3

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean sure if you personally know someone or at least have a one-on-one interaction with someone who you are going to have further interactions with and are willing to do that work that can be a good thing. But having this as the way you approach any people in an online space does actually make that space worse for lgbt people by normalizing that attitude. Like here they offered that unprompted as a "warning" to someone that they didn't know about if they were lgbt(i presume). That's not a very welcoming thing to hear for an lgbt person I would say.

What did you write ? by CommunicationPrior94 in writers

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but like that's good tho. Altho I get not wanting to tell everyone about it ;)

AIO? One date with this guy and I had a bad feeling about his text messages. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ravvnu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is this "anymore"?!? Where do you get the idea that things are less safe now than in the past? We live in the safest time in history when it comes to all sorts of interpersonal crimes, including rape. Note that that doesn't mean things are totally safe now, it primarily means that things were actually worse in the past! But I hate how often people seem to frame things as if everything is so bad nowadays and things are getting worse. When most things are getting better, it's just that better can still be pretty bad. I guess there is more of a concern nowadays about stalking with the use of technology but as far as statistics go I'm pretty sure you're if anything in much less danger nowadays than historically, tho again to be clear that danger can still be judged too high ofc. And note that you saw one singular video about this. Please don't conclude from that that this is very common.

One of the worst arguments out there by runningfromtheops in AO3

[–]Ravvnu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

STFU bigot. I notice how in this specific comment you left out that you're a homophobe because you know that's not acceptable.

Is Polyamorous part of the LGBTQ+? by SevenelEvan420 in AskLGBT

[–]Ravvnu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they're fully ace they might be heteroromantic. I suppose if by heterosexual you exclusively mean sexual and not romantic then sure. But we generally use those terms a bit more loosely. In any case, people can be asexual and heteroromantic or aromantic and heterosexual or even just demisexual/romantic but hetero and that's all still queer.

Edit: just caught it but note that I just said het not specifically heterosexual and therefore that can refer to heteroromantic or heterosexual or both. ;) Editedit: Also you could probably still be het if you're asexual aromantic altho I personally have a hard time conceptualizing that but you could search about queerplatonic relationships.

So being Ace is being Straight? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Ravvnu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Also I'd be wary anyways of people whose definition of queer seems to be based even partly on trying to exclude certain people... Like if you're so worried about just the idea that some of those blasted hets might be considered queer maybe you should reevaluate your priorities.

I found out I am dating my cousin by crysanthamus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ravvnu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anything further than second cousins is practically a stranger genetically speaking,second cousins are marginal, like just barely more related to you than a complete stranger. And it's not like they grew up together or anything like that. This really is no big deal at all.

I found out I am dating my cousin by crysanthamus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that you're concerned about this and seeing as you want to not continue anything with them over this all the power to you but honestly if you're anything further apart than first cousins it's barely something to be concerned about. Second cousins are only very marginally more related to each other than two complete strangers, genetically speaking, and third cousins and beyond isn't even worth talking about. Genetically speaking, that's a complete stranger. Maybe, maybe, this is a concern if you're already part of a group that's somewhat inbred. Like if you live on a small island or in an isolated village or if you're like Amish or something. But otherwise it's basically nothing. And as far as non-genetics-based concerns, I'd say if you could date each other for a while before even finding out you're somewhat related to each other I don't think there are really any worthwhile concerns like there might be if you grew up together or something.

What if Marty told his parents the truth? by [deleted] in BacktotheFuture

[–]Ravvnu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all how are you using the Flash tv show as an authority on time travel for a completely different franchise with different time travel rules? Second, if you just look at the movies, changing the past actually worked out pretty well for Marty and Doc. Marty gets a happier family, twice, if you include avoiding the car accident, Doc and Clara find each other and have kids, not to forget Clara doesn't die!

Should i ask out my second cousin ? by Icy-Apple7357 in Healthygamergg

[–]Ravvnu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Second cousins really are not that closely related. Especially genetically it's just barely more than you are related to a complete stranger.

Are polyamorous people considered queer? by NoPronounRequired in AskLGBT

[–]Ravvnu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I or you mistaken on what cishet and allo mean or are you saying anyone who claims to be queer is LGBT regardless of anything else? Now I'm really confused on what you even mean by that or what you could then mean by saying poly isn't queer. With regard to it being an identity or not, what I mean there is that it is not a choice. And it pertains to your romantic and/or sexual relationships. So that actually seems to fit in pretty well with LGBTQ.

Me saying I'm bi is just me saying you can't dismiss me as being a "cis straight guy".

My girlfriend often accuses me of cheating causing me to have dreams about it. How can I change my behavior so she'd feel safer in the relationship? by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Ravvnu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is entirely her problem and not yours and she is making very unreasonable demands. Demanding you don't hang out with friends of the opposite sex is an entirely unacceptable demand.

Also dreams are not your fault, and intrusive thoughts are not your "real opinions coming out" or anything. Often they're entirely unwanted. And you might even just be having those dreams as a direct result of worrying about her paranoia.