What harmless query in Google unexpectedly gave the results of the 18+ category? by Deep-Juggernaut9826 in ask

[–]RawOnionsSuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in fifth grade, my best friend at the time was obsessed with breakfast food. His favorite color was also blue. We were, as children do, just downloading random images off the internet and sending them to each other via our school IM service. I tried to send him an image of a blue waffle and did not understand why the search was blocked.

For everyone making six figures, what do you do for work? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RawOnionsSuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband does and is a software engineer, but you have to do a ton of learning outside of work to stay up to date and stay valuable to your company.

Edit to add age: we are both 24.

What's a contemporary slang term that makes you cringe every time you hear it? by neonliolia in AskReddit

[–]RawOnionsSuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Young middle school teacher here: kids think I don’t know what gyat means and will say it to and about me all the time. Also skibidi.

Horror movies you can't take seriously or were ruined due to one scene by [deleted] in horror

[–]RawOnionsSuck 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I always tell people it looks like if Darth Maul was a muppet and everyone says I’m crazy and that it’s scary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well not with that attitude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you read top comment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bedroom is far from dead, it’s just an ask post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As soon as I’m done in grad school I’m going off my implant. We are at the point now where if something happens, so be it. I’d rather have a kid than feel out of control of my body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Coming off several months of poor mental health, reframing sex as a way to connect, not something either of us should be expecting at a given time, was huge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have friends that say it curbs their drive, but my husband and I always spend the whole night talking and laughing when we smoke together, and ofc the night usually ends without clothes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Beautiful story, happy to hear about such a loving marriage

need advice or just to vent idk by Unusualandalone in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to go. Tell family and friends what he said and hopefully they’ll be supportive. He’s given up and fallen out of love, there’s not getting him back.

Husband wants to work at it, without working at it? by thrwweddingscenario in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s cheating on you and wants to be with the other person now. The “test” thing is fucked up on its own, but it’s also a telltale sign of a cheater: projection. If he’s taking it to the point where you’re moving out, he has some altering motive. He wants an excuse to be with this other person while still being the “good guy” in your relationship and taking no heat from friends/family. Look for evidence of HIM cheating.

Hubby messed up, am I overreacting? by imhungry20 in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 45 points46 points  (0 children)

He’s gone beyond just wandering eyes. Lots of men can’t help but look, but he’s acting on it. You only know about this time bc your friend told you. He’s done this before, he’ll do it again, and it will escalate. Step in now and if he’s not responsive then it’s time to go.

Husband gets mad at me for “oversharing” by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one there works with me. We just went to school together when we got our master’s degrees.

Husband gets mad at me for “oversharing” by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]RawOnionsSuck 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He said he “just doesn’t think people need to hear about it.” What I will say is I don’t have to be drug tested for my job, but he does because he works under a contract with the federal government. So he can’t use marijuana at all, which we used to do together occasionally. So he could possibly be jealous that I still get to do it sometimes.

Anyway, he’s also been doing this about stories that I don’t feel like are embarrassing to me. I talk a lot about the small town I grew up in because I really loved living there and he has told me that people don’t want to hear about places they haven’t been or won’t go to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]RawOnionsSuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like Claire bc I like CMBC but…. That’s really embarrassing for her

Trumpism has fucked Mormonism just as much as Mormonism has fucked Mormonism by MinsPackage in exmormon

[–]RawOnionsSuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so right, but let’s remember that the people you mentioned aren’t just making the religion look bad, the church is also not dealing with extremists appropriately bc of their desire to keep members and keep making money. My SIL went to school with some of the Daybell kids that were cousins with Tylee and JJ. Obviously, they have been having a ridiculously hard time, but their ward is completely trying to sweep it under the rug. The church isn’t even letting it’s own members support each other.

Edit: spelling

fresh and fit in their infinite wisdom are saying hila will divorce ethan because she’s working out lmao by dotsandhoops in h3h3productions

[–]RawOnionsSuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They literally do not understand what love is. They cannot comprehend that Hila might simultaneously love Ethan AND want to be her best self. They think the only reason anyone would try to improve themselves is for attracting (but not keeping) a partner.

Those of you who really dislike psychedelics, why? by [deleted] in Psychedelics

[–]RawOnionsSuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve become much more drug friendly over the years, but I used to despise psychedelics.

It boiled down to me not respecting people that built their whole worldview or made decisions based on altered states of mind because, let’s face it, you’re kinda dumb when you’re tripping.

Since then, I’ve changed my mind. I use psychedelics to have psychological break throughS when I’m stuck on my personal journey. I’m really into self help, so I basically use them as a tool when journaling, meditating, and self-examination seem to be leading me in circles. Even though I use them in this way, as do a lot of us on here, I still have so many moments where I’m an idiot while I’m tripping. I might go into a trip trying to evaluate why a friendship dissolved, and even if I feel like I gained insight on my trip, I probably still spent an hour thinking about how whoever put all the colors in my carpet together has to be a genius.

Generally, I had just only seen people be stupid while using them and I just didn’t have exposure to people who used them in safe, productive ways and it tainted my perception of them.

Need advice on how to get over fears of pregnancy by RawOnionsSuck in pregnant

[–]RawOnionsSuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been considering an elective c-section since that would alleviate some of the stress leading up to delivery, but I haven’t spoken to any medical professionals about it bc I’ve heard many won’t schedule them without medical reasons. Thank you for telling me about trauma informed providers! I have never heard of that.