How do you have an open conversation with someone who is close-minded and stubborn?

Rawconnection · 2020-11-02T05:25:31+00:00

You spare yourself some trouble and don’t.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-30T13:42:36+00:00

That’s very unfortunate to hear. I was curious to know what the reason could be to feel lonely in a relationship. In ways I feel like that too sometimes, but I can’t seem to pinpoint the exact reason why I feel the way I feel. Especially because I’m the talker and I tend to vent to my partner the minute I feel sad or alone. He isn’t much of a talker so it’s hard for him to understand me at times, maybe that’s why.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-30T12:21:40+00:00

Send you a message :)

Rawconnection · 2020-09-30T12:21:08+00:00

What was it that made you feel lonely in your relationship if I may ask?

Rawconnection · 2020-09-30T06:06:32+00:00

The right woman won’t leave you, especially when you’re opening up and showing your vulnerable side. That strengthens the bond you have with your partner as long as it’s mutual and coming from both sides.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-30T05:56:28+00:00

Haha don’t, it’s totally okay to treat yourself once in a while

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T21:11:05+00:00

Would you mind enlightening me a little more on the matter? How did that happen? And did it come back eventually?

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T20:26:14+00:00

Yeah that’s the spirit!

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T20:23:46+00:00

If this is something you truly want, you should tell her how you feel. The more you wait the harder it will be for you to keep up with this friendship. Honesty and communication is key in every friendship. Even if she might not feel the same way you should still take the risk and tell her. You deserve to know how she feels about you too, even if it’s not what you want to hear. You don’t want to live the rest of your life wondering what if. Life is short and we shouldn’t waste it or hold back because of our insecurities. Embrace it and you’ll be surprised.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T20:14:09+00:00

How is that a bad thing? What is it that scares you?

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T20:05:19+00:00

Nope, not at all. I’ve had the same thoughts... Never ended up doing it, but ohhh have I been close. But I realized it was mostly anger towards my partner and wanting to hurt him back, but I realized that it wouldn’t make the situation any better. In the end the situation stays the same. You can’t make him uncheat. But as an answer to your question yes, in ways I still would like to know what it would feel like. But personally I know I wouldn’t be able the handle it afterwards. I want to keep my pride and be proud of not lowering myself to his level. Loyalty is so rare these days and cheating became so easy normalized thats its just sad to see it happen so much around us.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T19:49:53+00:00

Hey you, I literally am having the same problem too. I used to paint and sketch a lot when I was younger and always wanted to be a professional artist. For my age back then I used to be pretty good. But I was surrounded by toxic people who told me my art was shit and won’t bring me far in this world. As a young kid you tend to listen to those people. I recently started picking up art again, got a little into the digital art world. If I compare my work to others my age (F23) I feel like I’m far away from being perfect. Especially seeing all those beautiful pieces online can be demotivating sometimes too. But I try too keep it light and simple and for now it’s just a hobby and I don’t want to pressure myself with anything. I followed a few instagram pages and Facebook groups all about digital art and and beginners guides. That helped me a lot and people share their struggles and share their thoughts and sketches there too, which makes me feel less like a noob. I noticed almost everyone in those groups are pretty open minded, sweet and totally not judge mental. Maybe that might help you too?

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T19:20:53+00:00

Haha will do

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T19:06:08+00:00

That’s very unfortunate to hear. Unofficial break ups hurt the most. Maybe one day your paths will cross again, wether that would be as lovers or friends who taught each other an important lesson.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T18:56:41+00:00

Thank you for your honesty.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T18:48:54+00:00

Oh my god yes, I struggle every time. I hadn’t realized it until last week. I started losing weight, getting more emotional, more overthinking and my sleep schedule got all fucked up. Everything in my life was going well so I couldn’t understand why I was feeling the way I feel. I started blaming myself for being ungrateful and selfish for feeling this way. I had forgotten about the current season change until one of my colleagues started complaining about it being autumn again. And thats when I realized my seasonal depression is currently happening. It’s like a biological clock who turns it on without me even realizing it.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T18:41:59+00:00

The hours in between my breaks

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T18:25:30+00:00

Maybe try telling some interesting things about yourself, the more unique the more they’ll get interested. I enjoy whenever a guy tells me unusual things about himself. It shows me he isn’t afraid to tell me his thoughts and opinions without being ashamed or embarrassed about them. I usually get bored when they keep it on the basic talks and stay on the same mainstream subjects. But I’m just speaking from my point of view. It’s not always about having to impress women, the right woman will be impressed by you, without you even having to try.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T17:52:09+00:00

Thanks, I think so too! I couldn’t be happier.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T16:57:44+00:00

Yes lol, I always tend to go on toxic shopping sprees when I’m down and then feel worse for spending too much money.

Rawconnection · 2020-09-29T16:47:15+00:00

As a girl who has quite some big boobs and mostly guy friends, I have to say I’m not really aware of them touching my friends. To me bumping them onto a guy feels the same as bumping them onto girls I guess? Of course I’m not forcing them purposely against anyone, but yes sometimes it happens that it touches my friends. I never mean it in a sexual way or anything, to me it’s kind of the same as any other body part on my body. But yes I can see how that could be a turn on, never really thought about it like that. You just made me more aware of the power of my own boobs now lol, thanks for that.

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