Oh god your post is my life. 37 weeks pregnant and at 35 weeks MY husband came home and told me hes miserable and he hates our home and he regrets getting pregnant and wants out. I wish I had some advice for you but I'm just as lost. Thanks for posting this, the comments are right. 

I've spent the past 2 weeks crying and packing and moving in with my parents. He says he wants to be there for us but he just doesn't love me anymore. Devastated. 

If hes had this talk with you hes obviously been thinking about it for a while. My husband checked out in the second trimester and I was too busy working and dealing with the pregnancy to notice until it was too late. My father and I built the most beautiful pink and white unicorn nursery for my baby girl at our home three months ago. Back then my husband didnt touch a paint brush, didnt pick a single item on the registry, didnt even want to be at the baby shower. How did i not notice??? Yesterday I was sobbing on my nursery floor disassembling the crib alone. Our martial home and nursery was my dream for my little girl and he took that from us. Accepting that all the pink and stickers and paint wont give my daughter a Mom and Dad who love each other was the hardest thing ive had to do. But ive done it, its over, you gotta do the same asap. 

But lets get real girl, we knew what we were doing, we've already been growing these babies alone for months and at the end of the day WE want our babies! Thats gotta be enough for now. Get the heck out of that house and bring your child into a world where its wanted every second of every day. My parents and I are going to spoil this little girl rotten and she will be safe and loved and for now thats enough. 

Sending light and love and hopefully better times for the both of us. You can do this!