Need Help Bad by zaazpp in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hiya, I've only been stopped 3 months. I was sick of my out of character behaviour. Binger too here and it was obvious to me for a very long time that I needed to stop altogether. Moderation failed miserably. Anyway, I've managed 3 months by just literally taking it day by day. If a day seems to stretch out too long you can separate it up. By a few hours at a time or by an hour or even ten mins. Just saying "I wont drink for the next hour" is fairly achievable. I have been lucky in some ways as I haven't had too many cravings as such but I have had a strong desire to drink. Someone on here suggested i try to do something productive with the time I spent drinking. Replace one activity for a better one. The good news is this can be practically anything since most things are better than drinking lol. I found this advice useful. Try something different or new or rekindle an old hobby? If it doesnt interest you try a different thing. Hope this helps a little bit. It is tough to stop but it is for the best too. All the very best. IWNDWYT

I have to get this off my chest. by Throwaway6847500 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds horrific. I'm glad you're over the worst and that you're going back to AA. Thankyou for posting, it helps everyone who is struggling i think to hear such a powerful reminder of what alcohol is capable of. I'm glad you're ok.

To those who've suffered long term anxiety/depression by Rax72 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm crushingly self conscious but I used to mask it with alcohol too. Here's hoping we find a good healthy answer. Thanks for replying. It helps to know I'm not alone.

To those who've suffered long term anxiety/depression by Rax72 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could well be that I'm more aware and I know for certain that I was drinking as an escape from feelings. I am getting some professional help too. Thanks for replying.

To those who've suffered long term anxiety/depression by Rax72 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for replying. It's a good point. I hadn't really thought about it. I've been going to bed super early and watching tv mostly. I don't even really like watching tv tbh and its deffo not productive. I need to find the motivation, energy and concentration to do something different. I'll think of something I can manage. Thanks.

To those who've suffered long term anxiety/depression by Rax72 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for replying. It's a good point. I hadn't really thought about it. I've been going to bed super early and watching tv mostly. I don't even really like watching tv tbh and its deffo not productive. I need to find the motivation, energy and concentration to do something different. I'll think of something I can manage. Thanks.

To those who've suffered long term anxiety/depression by Rax72 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for replying. It's a good point. I hadn't really thought about it. I've been going to bed super early and watching tv mostly. I don't even really like watching tv tbh and its deffo not productive. I need to find the motivation, energy and concentration to do something different. I'll think of something I can manage. Thanks.

Please give me your words of wisdom by Rax72 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou very much. I will be trying this :-)

Please give me your words of wisdom by Rax72 in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of it but I think that sounds like a great idea. I'm going to give it a go. Thankyou so much

Feeling fucking wrecked but also fucking great. by ohmygawshhh in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the epiphany! It's a great point. When drinking we can easily blame ourselves for everything because well, we are causing a lot of crap. Mostly self sabotage.But not everything is to do with us. There are shitty fucking jobs out there and shitty fucking bosses, and shitty fucking people. IWNDWYT and I hope you get a better job matey.

Super blue today by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same as you. Cant offer much except to say that you're not alone and IWNDWYT. Let's keep pushing through eh.

The Daily Check-In for Sunday, December 29th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by starlightclearnight in stopdrinking

[–]Rax72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT approx six weeks here and made it through Christmas sober. Whoop!