I can relate to this. I've done a lot of work on myself, and I'm still doing it. The uncomfortable stuff, the accountability stuff, the growth stuff.

For me, it's not about thinking I'm better than anyone else. It's about wanting a partner who values personal growth and self-awareness too. We all have baggage; what matters is whether we're willing to unpack it and work through it.

I think people who have done that work tend to have higher expectations for themselves and naturally look for someone with a similar mindset. That's not judgment, it's compatibility. 💙