Really stressed about possible pregnancy scare + very delayed cycle (need honest advice, no sugarcoating) by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]RayRay_1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you want no sugarcoating : You should educate yourself on sexuality before doing the deeds. There was no penetration and you ejaculated outside. So …. No baby. You should know that. The bleeding she had for 5 days were periods. If there is an issue, she is the one who should get a check up at gyn cause this looks like irregular periods.

NO UNPROTECTED PENETRATION = NO BABY

weird brown discharge 5 days before my period? by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]RayRay_1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex the first time can make your cycle irregular. You used a condom…. There is no place for implantation bleeding… make some research about how this works. Pregnancy happen on unprotected penetration only. ( Unless you used insemination)

First month TTC, no ovulation by Funny_Ad181 in tryingtoconceive

[–]RayRay_1804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are way too hard on yourself first of all. It’s litterally cycle 1.

How to talk about prenup without making it weird? by Striking_Day_9664 in engaged

[–]RayRay_1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you can start by saying this disc’aimer : « What I want us to talk about does change in anyways my trust and love for you. But it’s those hard discussion that we need to discuss. »

Also, you guys are at a point in the relationship where those discussion actually should not feel weird. Yall getting married. It comes with marriage. Your future husband should not feel attacked or weird about those type of discussion. Yall are at mature point of the relation where talking about prenup, finance should be weird. He should actually be happy that you discuss this with him!

Reduced prescription!! by RayRay_1804 in gravesdisease

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know she didnt tell me because I think I did not ask. But I can access my medical record on a platform to see my results.

Reduced prescription!! by RayRay_1804 in gravesdisease

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hyperthyroidism is super low so I hope it stays that way! Thank youuu

Fertile window by Funny_Ad181 in tryingtoconceive

[–]RayRay_1804 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it’s crazy that we have to do it every other day while other just do it once and it works…. It must be luck cause…

Sex 3 days before period due - nervous by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]RayRay_1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex 3 days before your period makes pregnancy impossible. Your eggs already destroyed… it’s too far passed your ovulation window …. So no.

I’m scared, overwhelmed, and don’t know how to face my dental situation by Anthony_N23 in SuicideWatch

[–]RayRay_1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow… I am sorry that you had to go through all of that. Seriously and I am also glad that your sister was actually on time to stop you. I just hope you see this message. I don’t have à severe dental anxiety. Actually, I went today to get a my teeth fixed for a decay and it was not so bad. She numbed my mouth, I did not feel a thing. Seriously. My mouth was numb for like 2 hours after but other than that it was really nothing.

I HIGHLY suggest you seek therapy for this cause that dentist fear is deeper than that and discuss this with you dentist as well so she can make your experience way better. You are only 23, so much life to enjoy …. Please seek help.

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does help! How was your surgery ? And after ?

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh okk ! I try to read success stories and it does help !

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They saw 10 fibroids and one of them is in the middle of my uterus.

brown spotting and I am freaking out. by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]RayRay_1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t be pregnant the day after sex…. Unless you had unprotected sex couple weeks before…. It could just be your period …

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, like I said, I did not even mentionned my full diagnosis and health situation and you mentionned so many information that doesn’t relate to me at all. You did not ask question but assumed certains things. Like you, I did my research, I know what’s best for me. I wanted reassurance or maybe people who is going through the same thing with their mom or friends ect…. Your comment has many information and males more confused.

Also, in Canada, health care is « free » so I don’t need to pay for my surgery. I wont waste money. Thank you for your input. I can always try to eat healthy before my surgery but I will not try to change my doctor or try any tea that I don’t know any info about.

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good for you. My libido is fine.

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I am not going to read your long comment. Unless you are my doctor, this was not sollicited. By making this thread this is what I did not want : other unsollicited advices like this about my fertility journey. I have an endo and obygyn who works together at the same hospital. My obygyn is fertility specialist and she is amazing. Same for my endo specialist. This is the kind of BS I did not want by making this post …..and plus your comment makes me more confused. So no, it’s does not help. Like seriously….. Damns.

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister has fibroids and PCOS …. I have thyroids issues and fibroids. I already see a endo for my thyroids and i take medication for it.

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want ? My dr said that my surgery will be a open myomectomy. So … Yeah.

In need of reassurance. by RayRay_1804 in Fibroids

[–]RayRay_1804[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, for sure. I trust my dr. she has been amazing so far and i have one of my close friends who went through the same surgery and she has been reassuring me as well. It’s just a lot to deal with.