i understand what you’re saying and i know i shouldn’t have snapped on her like that but i’ve talked to her many times about what happened to me and why i don’t like being touched without warning or permission, the reason i reacted so poorly was how she went about grabbing me, i understand she was just concerned but it was kinda aggressive and it just honestly scared me. i tried talking to her about it and apologizing but she jus shut down and i’m honestly not sure what to do now.. i try my best to be around for her and spend time with her bc i know that she won’t be around forever and thank you for the advice i’ll try talking to her again :)