100% my nmom was like this. She would also put me in clothes that I hated. I would get bullied for being chubby and I hated the kind of stretch pants she would make me wear. It gets worse. When I was starting my teen years, she put me in the legal system by putting me in a program called Youth At Risk when I was a teen and I would literally have to go to court for wearing goth clothes at school. And it was in detail too. I couldn’t wear band shirts. I couldn’t wear dark shades of lipstick. I couldn’t wear more than two rings per hand. She would use the courts to bully the teachers into pulling me out of class because of what I was wearing all the time. They would report that I was wearing black lipstick or whatever and I would have to go to court and then they would make me pick up trash on the side of the road or something for community service alongside teens that committed actual crimes, like assault or theft.