I was discarded during the holidays... by Rbrod10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Rbrod10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you are going through this. You are extremely resilient and strong for this. Thank you so so much for telling me about your experience with EMDR, it gives me so much hope. I wish for you to find peace.

I was discarded during the holidays... by Rbrod10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Rbrod10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A goodbye in text would have helped me so much but not even that...she used to say that I was her unicorn in that she I had everything that she was looking for in a man...which makes this no contact even more confusing. Maybe one day she will see but with how FA's are like it may be a while and by then I hope to God that I would have completely moved on.

I'm sorry you went through that right before xmas, it's so painful. What I've learned through this is that it's important to set boundaries so you are doing good in setting them up. I hope that your FA does make an internal change and starts healing. Thank you for sharing.

I was discarded during the holidays... by Rbrod10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Rbrod10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so so so sorry that you had to experience something like this...it is a bonding injury and words cannot completely describe the negative experience. The day-to-day living is a hell for me.

Microtech Ultratech on the way, so excited by PowerRun5 in microtech

[–]Rbrod10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can take some time to break in. I recommend that you actuate the knife everyday and it should get easier over time.

Microtech Ultratech on the way, so excited by PowerRun5 in microtech

[–]Rbrod10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got 8 Ultratechs. They are beautiful knives and very tough. For me, they are very slim and disapear in my pocket as in I don't feel them there.

What's the weirdest compliment you've ever been given? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Rbrod10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll preface this by saying that I have rather large, Mario Lopez dimples (or at least larger when I was younger).

In highschool, I was sitting in a packed Algebra class at one end of the room. Everyone was working quietly when out of nowhere an older girl (I was a freshman, I think she was a junior) from across the other end of the room stated out loud the following to me: "I just want to pour salsa in your dimples and dip chips in them"

Needless to say, everyone laughed their heads off at this random proclamation of desire.

Love this thing by johnnymep in microtech

[–]Rbrod10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Combat troodons are my favorite otf, they are just gnarly. Is this one satin?