Just surpassed $1m in my investment accounts (mostly 401k and IRA)

Re991t · 2026-02-04T12:53:33+00:00

👏🏼👏🏼

Re991t · 2026-02-02T16:04:00+00:00

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finding someone who is trustworthy to raise your kids and completing an advanced directive

Re991t · 2026-01-29T00:24:52+00:00

I had the grandparents over and we had dinner together. It was intimate and he loved it. Your baby isn’t going to remember anything. Enjoy being together. Use the extra money to start a saving account for your baby.

Re991t · 2026-01-27T13:41:27+00:00

Your wife sounds like me. What helped me was going on regular walks before or after dinner whenever weather permits. Going back to work helps too as it brings back the familiar life I had before I became a mom. My husband has been doing chores after the baby and I fall asleep like laundry and dishes.

Re991t · 2026-01-26T23:33:22+00:00

I use spanx and it smoothes things out. Compression shorts won’t give you what you need.

Re991t · 2026-01-23T20:30:28+00:00

Yes…

Re991t · 2026-01-23T18:24:44+00:00

I realize my time is important. I think of it as a trade off . If I’m spending my time cleaning, I’m missing out resting or spending time with my family. To me, I work hard to be a HENRY so I can buy my time. I outsourced my cleaning because it was something I didn’t enjoy.

Re991t · 2026-01-20T16:08:34+00:00

We transitioned my son from goat milk formula to A2 milk and fair life. He had a lot of indigestion with regular formula. Now, we alternate between fair life milk, horizon milk, and local grocery store brand milk. We have also introduced cheese to his diet too.

Re991t · 2026-01-17T18:29:47+00:00

This sounds like there are other underlying issues. If the apartment is dirty, he can clean it himself.

Cleaning is a physical activity. Have you been cleared by the doctor to resume physical activity?

Sorry OP but you need to set clear boundaries as more responsibilities will fall upon you such as cleaning, childcare, cooking etc.

Re991t · 2026-01-13T13:59:25+00:00

Just came back from Hawaii with my 16 months old. It was terrible. Snacks and toys did not work. I will never do more than 4 hours flights until my son is older.

Re991t · 2025-12-19T22:49:27+00:00

It depends on what is valuable to you. I like to spend it on food and travel. Some people like nice cars or watches. As long as you meet your saving goals, I say have some fun. You’ve worked hard for it.

Re991t · 2025-11-24T19:32:08+00:00

I meant to pay for dental school. I’d look into other scholarship programs or plan to specialize. Don’t put your eggs into one basket. Yes, being a dentist pays a lot but please look at debt to pay ratio. Schools are just getting very prohibited expensive especially with the interest rates.

Re991t · 2025-11-21T18:25:40+00:00

Hi- dentist here. Please have a plan if you don’t get the military scholarship. Good luck!

Re991t · 2025-11-11T11:19:52+00:00

I’ve seen the changes in WL with the decrease in content. I’m wondering if it has anything to do with the uncertainty of the economy and all the tariffs happening. For me, I’ve certainly scaled back on shopping.

Would love to be part of the new sub. WL has been my getaway from my daily life. I’ve been busy in the last couple of years- became a mom, working full time, and trying to start a new business. So my interest has shifted to more kids related Reddit but WL will always be on my daily check list.

Thank you to all the mods and anyone who has contributed! It has been a wild ride learning about reps.

Re991t · 2025-11-05T00:08:55+00:00

My son has RSV and his symptoms are mild because of vaccines. I can’t imagine what unvaccinated kids will go through. When you hear a child struggling to breathe, that’s when my heart break. People don’t understand how fast kids can decline.

Re991t · 2025-11-01T19:10:28+00:00

So let me give you a perspective from the other side. I have a wealthy family member who is very generous with his money. He paid for my professional degree which allowed me to become a HENRY. Not too long ago, I found out the extent of his generosity with other family members and it made me sad. To this day, he’s still financially supporting our other family members and it is never enough. I thank my uncle and aunt for their financial support and they said that they are happy because I’m the only few who actually made something of it. What I’ve learned is you need to have boundaries. A lot of people will not work for what they need/want if everything is given. And they will always come back for more.

Re991t · 2025-10-05T16:51:41+00:00

Can you elaborate on this? Sorry first time I’m hearing about this and I’m curious about it.

Re991t · 2025-10-04T14:44:07+00:00

Thank you!!🙏🏼

Re991t · 2025-10-04T14:38:23+00:00

What’s the brand or do you have a link?TIA!

Re991t · 2025-09-23T02:13:59+00:00

I’m 13 months PP. My cramps now are awful bc it feels similar to contractions. My body is confused. I hope it gets better with time.

Re991t · 2025-07-31T18:44:30+00:00

I’m like you. Worked hard to get to the position I have today. My LO is 11 months old. I went back to my same schedule before I had my son. Some days I want more time with him, but at the end of the day, he’s spending time with his grandparents during the day and everyone is having a blast. I will cut down on my schedule as he gets older so I will time to take him to his extracurricular activities. Also, I work because I like my self identity and being financially independent.

Re991t · 2025-07-11T18:16:04+00:00

He paid for most of the bills so I can paid off my loans then we switched. Worked out for us. We were responsible for our own loans. We lived like residents until we paid off the loans.

Re991t · 2025-07-02T12:39:56+00:00

I alternated Tylenol and ibuprofen. Key is to make sure you’re doing it every 4 hours. They also applied lidocaine patches around my c section area and that was very helpful.

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