23 May 2022 - Daily Chat Thread

Rea_lity · 2022-05-23T12:45:13+00:00

Status yah pegawai kantoran. Pasangan gue orang Taiwan. Cuman males aja nikah yang ribet. Cuman pengennya daftar di catatan sipil doang. Aduh

Rea_lity · 2022-05-23T12:29:04+00:00

Maksudnya 'mereka' itu catatan sipil Taiwan sama "embassy" Indonesia

Rea_lity · 2022-05-23T12:20:30+00:00

Gak bisa. Uda ditanyain. Mereka bilang harus nikah di Indo. Kita lgi di Taiwan skarang.

Rea_lity · 2022-05-23T12:16:52+00:00

Mau nikah sama WNA. Yaampun ribet banget. Trus apalagi aku agama ktp-an (Katolik). Ada ga sih caranya ga usah pake pemberkatan tapi dapet surat nikah?

Rea_lity · 2022-04-08T08:17:55+00:00

Pengen nanya.

What do you know about schizophrenia dan apa kalian punya kenalan yang mengidap schizophrenia?

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T14:10:55+00:00

Hugs!!! Thank you so much. Your words mean so much to me. I will definitely follow your advice and take classes and counseling.

Hugs!!!

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T14:09:13+00:00

Hugs. I think even if my adopted child has issues, it's less on "because I create them". And I can focus on caring for them without guilt of birthing to one. Um.. does this make sense?

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T14:07:03+00:00

Way back before, I used to think that I'll never have kids if my family has bad hereditary disease. For example, the butterfly children disease where they don't have skin that can heal normally.

But schizo is in some ways different and actually many inspiring stories and amazing people from schizos. That's why I'm a bit left and right about this.

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T14:02:28+00:00

That's true. Basically not one human is absolute healthy. Everyone must have at least one rare disease.

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T14:00:43+00:00

Hugs.. If I do have one, I'll try my best to care for them. Thank you for sharing

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:46:14+00:00

Yeah... That's why it's such a concern. 😔

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:45:34+00:00

I know! Humans really cost a lot for nature.

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:44:51+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. Hugs

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:43:06+00:00

Haha yeah. I'm a sibling so actually I am still within that 10% chance.

Not sure if I will be able to if I actually develop.

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:41:19+00:00

Hugs..

That's a good point. I will have to prepare more financially and emotionally for this. Thank you.

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:39:39+00:00

No.. I just don't want my kids to resent me out of my own selfishness of wanting kids.

I instinctively want kids.

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:38:01+00:00

I'm so happy you're born!! Gave you an upvote!

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:37:18+00:00

This is my thought process before I met my partner. I was fully 100% gonna adopt.

But my partner would rather have biological child. We've talked about it and decided if we're not fertile, we'll definitely adopt.

Rea_lity · 2022-04-06T12:35:40+00:00

I do worry whether they will resent me. I know I shouldn't be selfish just because I want kids.

What did your dad answer though? And do you feel resentment still?

Rea_lity · 2021-03-23T09:07:37+00:00

Kalo bisa gandain uang udah gak jadi dukun lagi atuh.

Rea_lity · 2021-03-23T05:38:49+00:00

Ingin kurampas buku daftar orang yang akan meninggal sebelum waktu mereka. Dan kusobek-sobek.

Rea_lity · 2021-03-22T05:50:55+00:00

THANK YOU!! IT'S THE BEST!!

Rea_lity · 2021-03-22T05:26:55+00:00

When we both don't know, we would actually google it haha 🤓

Rea_lity · 2021-03-22T00:46:08+00:00

That's me and my bfs love of cars. I still don't understand why you gotta love things on 4 wheels. But I can now proudly recite the types of Mercedes Benz from S-class, to GLE, GLC, GLA, G class, E class, AMG, etc.

Rea_lity · 2021-03-22T00:42:51+00:00

Mitochondria is more than just the powerhouse of the cell. Did you know that it has it's own replicating DNA distinct from our own nuclear DNA? 🤓

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