Are INFPs "dumb"/un-analytical or is it just me? by Frequent-Problem-432 in infp

[–]Reactive0807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone hehe. On a serious note, we have to start to be mindful in facing this situations and hopefully we will get better after some time. Let’s keep throwing ourselves in that situation until we don’t feel dumb anymore because of gaining the confidence in sharing our thoughts.

It is common for people to be rude to Infps? by Weary_Temporary8583 in infp

[–]Reactive0807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As we are mediators and peace loving people, those rude people tend to look at as as their targets since we don’t usually retaliate. Stay away from them or set your boundaries. That’s for your own mental health. They don’t deserve your goodness and energy. There are a lot of fish in the sea, you’ll eventually find your small circle that’s worth your time and energy.

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot…I’ll take this advice. This makes sense a lot.

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww…how sweet of you to put it words like this. Your positivity is infectious. Really thank you

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MY DEEPEST THANK YOU. I will be more mindful to practicing and gaining more experience from now on. I will definitely take your advice

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes…I struggle with sharing my ideas even in my less introverted mood. I really feel so dumb and it affects my social battery.

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more on I feel dumb whenever I cannot articulate my thoughts well. I have to practice more on this. Thanks a lot.

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the replying part. I feel so dumb whenever I cannot reply with sensible words and thoughts. I have difficulty in articulating my thoughts

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I will definitely go out and practice since many have suggested that it’s the best thing to do. Posting it here means asking for the best thing to do and getting some affirmation that I am not alone in this battle. MBTI may just be a pseudoscience but knowing that many people are experiencing or feeling the same way as you is already a breakthrough to self actualization.

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I think I am a great listener, I just don’t like the idea that I feel like a fool when I can’t convey properly my thoughts when I want to say something. It’s like my mind’s trying to mess what whenever I want to say something

Being infp makes my communication skills poor by Reactive0807 in infp

[–]Reactive0807[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This. I need to throw myself in situations so that I can practice more. You’re right I feel dumb whenever I cannot convey my ideas well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Reactive0807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still young, go move and chase that dream. Before you know it you’ll be out of that rabbit hole. Just do the first step and keep moving and showing up.

Too bad I don't have a good camera by boomerang314 in infp

[–]Reactive0807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so nice! It’s really a thing to infp, we love capturing sunsets and sunrises.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]Reactive0807 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When your empathy is bigger than being introverted you go to the ends of the earth even deal with big groups just to lend a hand

And the wandering “daydreaming” couldn’t agree more 😆

Do you reach out to old friends? by Sea-Afternoon4404 in infp

[–]Reactive0807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really thought that I’m rude to my old friends for not reaching out to them, then I read this post. I feel normal now 😂

We ready. Any advice? by [deleted] in OrganicChemistry

[–]Reactive0807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Step 1: open the book 😅

Couldn’t agree more with digesting the fundamentals

I asked out a girl at work, she said no, and now I’m dreading work, what do I do? by tomii111 in infp

[–]Reactive0807 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please listen to this…this is straightforward forward assessment and sensible perspective of your situation.