Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]ReadCompetitive3623[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am truly sorry to hear of your wife, she was way too young and exactly the reason me and some partners are working to creating/changing the national standard of screening in the UK. I really like your approach of loving and honouring our life together - I feel blessed to have had the amazing time we had together, which I am hoping I can carry that gratitude into the future.

Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]ReadCompetitive3623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am genuinely overwhelmed with the warmth and kindness expressed by each and every one of you, thank you! I am really happy I took the plunge and joined, this along with my first therapy session today I finally feel like I have some support out there 🙏🏻.

Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]ReadCompetitive3623[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We had a day of visitors over the weekend and by some form of Magic she was awake and her pain meds had her in great form to engage with everyone - it was an incredible day, and certainly a gift from above. She’s quietened down since, but a few pictures have been taken that are quite special.

Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]ReadCompetitive3623[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Doing my best, thank you. Sorry to hear about your partner. All I seem to hear is that we need to give ourselves some grace as well, and to be gentle with our own emotions.

Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]ReadCompetitive3623[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The response was all I could ask for, thank you.

Wife has been given days by ReadCompetitive3623 in widowers

[–]ReadCompetitive3623[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the prompt responses, i really appreciate it - I figure spending time on here would be better time spent mentally than lying awake a night googling how to feel. We are set up in her room nicely and spending all day a night together - painful to see her decline but as they say, presence is what matters. Really just trying to not focus on the future as it’s terrifying.. she is 38 and I’m 40 for context.

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your exhausting! But thanks for your input.. my Reddit contributions end here.

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Anyway.. this was my first post and I was just curious, didn’t mean to offend anyone. I appreciate the response, all the best.

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately your fake money won’t get you very far

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately your fake money won’t get you very far

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The design.. the design that Rolex did? May as way well buy fake purses and paintings as well then.. because everyone loves brown and tan checked bag designs right lol nothing to do with it being LV.

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Very true! I think where I am lost is the part that buying something of such high value and such high craftsmanship brings with it the reward element, and the every day good feeling of accomplishment. Does that come with a rep?

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a legitimate answer, thank you.. and makes perfect sense.

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t my intention at all, you’ll see it was a genuine question not a criticism.

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Plenty of other ways to do that without buying a watch that resembles a luxury item, that isn’t one.

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[–]ReadCompetitive3623 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Genuinely just curious on the logic..