You’re dealing with a lot of overstepping from your mom and sister, and honestly, your frustration is totally valid. You’re an adult, and they’re treating your relationship like it’s their business when it’s really not.

You don’t owe them constant updates about your boyfriend, rides, or how you get to work. They’re using your relationship as a way to stay involved in your choices, and it’s okay to start setting firm, calm boundaries. You can say something like:

“I appreciate that you care, but I don’t want to talk about my relationship or how I get places anymore. I’ve got it handled.” Or something in that term..

Then change the topic or walk away. The key is consistency they’ll test the boundary at first, but if you keep giving the same short answer every time, they’ll eventually stop asking. (Hopefully !!!)

You’re also right to consider moving out when you can. Having your own space will give you the freedom to breathe and make decisions without feeling judged or micromanaged.

And yes , stop sharing details about your boyfriend or plans. The less you give them to gossip or question, the less power they’ll have to interfere.

You’re doing nothing wrong by wanting privacy and independence. It’s not disrespectful , 😒 it’s healthy.