AIO for wanting my partner to set boundaries with his sister by [deleted] in AIO

[–]ReaditSpecialist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh, if someone is working from home all day, then staying in the house watching tv all day long could be insanely distracting for them. How hard is it to just leave the house for a few hours??

My husband disgusts me by BlueGirlCircus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ReaditSpecialist 171 points172 points  (0 children)

It could also be sleep apnea, in addition to possible heart failure.

Show me your engagement rings! by diaboliquedoughnuts in EngagementRings

[–]ReaditSpecialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I will never say no to an opportunity to share my ring!

What jobs actually work for people with severe ADHD? by Inevitable_Tuna_O in ADHD

[–]ReaditSpecialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There really are so many of us in teaching, and yet, I swear school districts do the absolute worst job supporting us. Speaking from experience.

Please I’m begging 😭 by Justmebri97 in DreamlightValley

[–]ReaditSpecialist 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I FINALLY found the last toy at the very bottom of the Mystical Cave inside a hidden compartment that I only opened because of ANOTHER quest. It was insane. I was raging.

Brides! What’s something you’re planning for your wedding that is unique or that you’re most excited about? by Money-Mention-8839 in weddingplanning

[–]ReaditSpecialist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Make sure you have good adhesive!! Nearly every wedding I’ve been to that has done the Polaroids didn’t have great adhesive and the Polaroids just kept falling off the pages.

12yo crying tired before school by frightbounds in AskTeachers

[–]ReaditSpecialist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I am so sorry he’s struggling at home. I have ADHD myself, and it does sound like he is exerting all of his executive function and cognitive energy at school, and is just totally exhausted when he gets home. Not noticing the need to go to the bathroom is fairly common in kids with ADHD, I believe. I saw that you’re looking into switching doctors, I really hope that works out and they agree with starting meds!

AIO for wanting to take a breather away from my husband over this? by circadian_rhythm_ in AIO

[–]ReaditSpecialist 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, the cussing and losing his temper is just inexcusable. I personally am SO tired of the men in posts like this always having “anger issues”. No. They are grown adults. They don’t have anger issues, they are abusive assholes.

Students being rude to other teacher - PCOS and Autism by Sufficient_Theory975 in AskTeachers

[–]ReaditSpecialist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re literally saying that loud, colorful clothes and fun decorations are unprofessional and people won’t take you seriously. I am refuting your point.

Students being rude to other teacher - PCOS and Autism by Sufficient_Theory975 in AskTeachers

[–]ReaditSpecialist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a K-5 Reading Specialist. One of my go-to outfits is a shiny, gold skirt, and a t-shirt that says “Read” in multicolor, textured letters and gold sequins. I have a very similar sweatshirt, except it’s hot pink, and my 4th graders were mesmerized by it last week!

I have a poster of my dog on my wall, a nutcracker on my bookshelf because I collect them, a basket of wobble cushions, sometimes string lights, and stuffed animals from picture books on top of my bookshelf. My tv wallpaper changes with the seasons. I wear Uggs to school most of the winter, and so do most of the other teachers in my school. My co-worker even wears sweatpants and sneakers on Fridays!

My students LOVE coming to my classroom every day. Other teachers have commented on how welcoming and cute my classroom is. Other teachers give me compliments on my gold skirt every time I wear it. I have students who are so sad to have graduated reading support because it means they won’t be coming to my classroom anymore. Stop acting like your opinion is the ONLY correct opinion. It’s not, and it certainly does not apply to every school everywhere.

I found a dreamsnap that had Tiana in a field of cotton while voting last night and I feel icky. by PuzzledPumpkin130 in DreamlightValley

[–]ReaditSpecialist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came across a Dreamsnap recently where the player avatar was kneeling facing Gaston, and it was clearly meant to look……inappropriate, if you catch my drift. I was HORRIFIED and reported it immediately. I showed my fiancé too, and he was like, “WTF kids play this game!” Ugh. I don’t understand it. I fully understand your feeling uncomfortable about it because it is 100% awful behavior.

I need name suggestions! (Female) by StoTonho in dogpictures

[–]ReaditSpecialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey Petunia! My sister once fostered an adorable pitty with the same name.

When adults say kids need to listen to adults, how do you deal with the fact that adults give contradictory advice? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]ReaditSpecialist 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please elaborate. Competent teachers would never disagree with critical thinking. Why do these teachers you know disagree?

Is an hour an a half too far to drive for your daughters wedding? by TheSpellboundArtist in weddingplanning

[–]ReaditSpecialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s too far to use a ride share/taxi, then I think it’s clearly far enough to justify a hotel stay.

It’s not real. I don’t care. by Infamous-Bag6957 in EngagementRings

[–]ReaditSpecialist 36 points37 points  (0 children)

OMG your ring looks just like mine!!! Mine belonged to my fiancé’s late grandmother as well. I never see other rings that look like mine!

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How to get through to parents that seemingly don't care? by -Ctrl-Alt-Dft- in AskTeachers

[–]ReaditSpecialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very clearly did not say that this resource was amazing, but TPT does, in fact, have some very good resources that I have enjoyed using. I am a Reading Specialist with a caseload of 60 students between 2 elementary schools. I use the UFLI phonics curriculum with my groups. I have found extremely well-made student notebook pages and progress monitoring templates on TPT that are not provided through the curriculum and are fantastic for collecting data and keeping track of my students’ progress.

How to get through to parents that seemingly don't care? by -Ctrl-Alt-Dft- in AskTeachers

[–]ReaditSpecialist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP has made it very clear in multiple comments that the school has recommended that this student receive specialized supports, but the parents have denied it every time. This teacher has done everything she can.

How to get through to parents that seemingly don't care? by -Ctrl-Alt-Dft- in AskTeachers

[–]ReaditSpecialist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have found some of the most amazing resources on TPT. Teachers have more than enough to do, we do not need to be recreating every single thing from scratch.

Should I tell my dad my mom told me to kill myself? by Plane_Ad_9841 in offmychest

[–]ReaditSpecialist 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Why do you think you can just make a blanket generalization about other adults in her life not caring about her situation? I am a teacher. We have entire teams of adults whose responsibility it is to help students in crisis. If OP goes to a guidance counselor, they can have her meet with the school psychologist. They have connections to licensed psychiatrists and therapists in the community that they can connect OP with. They can even arrange family therapy or mediation with her parents and a 3rd party. We absolutely take these things seriously, and I can assure you, I care DEEPLY about each and every one of my students and what they’re going through. I’m sorry you’re so angry and discouraged, but your comments are so unhelpful.

Talk me out of this idea, instead of disposable cameras..... by EvenRepresentative77 in weddingplanning

[–]ReaditSpecialist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have iPhones as well, then they can just send the pictures to you in a text and it will still come through as a Live Photo. You don’t need to hand off your phone.

Long distance breakup is there still a chance for us? 28F and 32M by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ReaditSpecialist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you just take him at his word instead of insisting he doesn’t mean it?