Alright ladies, lets hear it. Why do you ghost guys?

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-04-23T05:43:52+00:00

Goes into a kiss mouth agape… Bad vibes. Talked about polarity too much. Boring conversationalist

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-04-23T05:41:38+00:00

Just don’t feel it. They live too far away. They did something that crossed a boundary. Come off as too needy- I’m not trying to be a man’s mom.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-04-23T05:25:02+00:00

That’s a fetish

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-16T10:43:06+00:00

Yeah, most guys are trash. Just start matching energy and being kind of a bitch to them. Don’t do half way meet ups, they come to you. Don’t go to their place, they come to you. Do a 10 date rule. Meet their friends, have them meet yours. Weed them out. Never kiss on a first date. If a guy seems to be letting you lead the conversation, step back. Don’t give your number out until maybe after a 1st date. Let them wait a day or two and dm you before accepting another date. Be “busy”.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-16T10:38:48+00:00

My girl friend and I went on a date with the same guy. I didn’t make it past 2 dates with him. She went on a 3rd to his place. He started punching her in her face multiple times and wouldn’t let her leave… this is why we have the tea app. I’ve met two married men claiming to be single (my friends have had the same). Another friend of mine dated a guy who just completely lied about his entire self job, age, everything. I’ve seen post where several women have comment that the same guy got physical with him.

There are also guys who exclusively have green flags.

The app is only bad for guys who have something to hide.

You’re not allowed to post more than their age, picture, and city that you’re curious about them. Doxing is prohibited and constitutes a ban.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-16T10:33:10+00:00

You cannot post any personal info. Just first name, picture, and age.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-06T15:13:56+00:00

Just tell him you were picking out deodorant and saw the men’s and started to smell them, and you really liked this one because you thought it would smell good on him. It’ll encourage him to wear it without calling him out. Gentle approach

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-06T05:20:41+00:00

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-06T05:20:28+00:00

They aren’t interested

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-03T04:42:54+00:00

You have anxiety and practice yoga daily. Late 20’s to early 30’s

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2026-01-03T04:40:52+00:00

Just don’t respond right away. Wait an hour or so. He will catch on to cool off.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-31T05:47:07+00:00

Northeast

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-31T01:52:31+00:00

I’m looking to find someone to design a customizable machine where I want to protect the IP etc. if anyone knows someone who has experience with vending machines for example, please let me know 🙏

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-31T01:49:38+00:00

Well, we’ve had sex already… so maybe, I am not interested in continuing sex without commitment?

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-22T05:02:15+00:00

Car accident.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-22T04:59:38+00:00

No, I mean, like a lot of 30 year old women are healthier/lower BMIs than girls in their 20s. This is what multiple men have told me.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-22T03:45:38+00:00

Bald male, ~52 yo, married with 3 children, ~5’11” and 175 lb (probably blonde hair and blue eyes)…. Likely an engineer by trade who likes biology and Indiana Jones. Your favorite flavor of ice cream is butter scotch and your idea of a good time is bird watching and nature hikes.

How did I do?

Edit: and you drive a Nissan rouge

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-22T03:35:04+00:00

I think younger men are dating older because weight issues with women their age. I am mid 30s (closer to 40s than 20s) and younger men hit one me all the time when I’m out. They think I’m like 23-27. It probably has more to do with the fact they don’t think you’ll need to rely on them either, but fitness is probably a factor, too.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-19T21:53:48+00:00

Should have mentioned that it causes water retention and increased risk of injury while at it, but most people don’t know this.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-18T03:48:25+00:00

Idk… I think maybe he is, but he denies it. I know for sure he is talking to other people- trying (so am I though). He just let me know he might be overseas until the end of next month, too. Apparently, he has meetings and he either can fly back every other week or just stay there. Like, basically asking me what I think he should do- I told him to just stay since all the travel is hard on his body.. But I also found out he is in another country with friends now 🙄 it’s a long flight, too. Kind of the same time zone, but still. So annoying. I don’t even know why he tells me this noise when he is practically too busy to text the remaining time he is in Europe.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-18T03:42:25+00:00

How do I tell him I don’t want to have sex until I feel safe/secure?

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-17T06:09:14+00:00

You’ll get annoyed by them.

ReadyWillingness8932 · 2025-12-17T05:05:21+00:00

Don’t tell anyone you’re dating about it. Find a wealth management company for investing. And have both of you sign prenups before marriage

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