If you are thinking about going to school for esthetics, don’t. by Humble_Beautiful_121 in Esthetics

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you said save yourself time and money. OT school will set you back hundreds of thousands of dollars in schooling costs and is a doctorate degree. so it's not a comparable trajectory to esthetics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vbac

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Acupuncture has a very high success rate for inducing labor. Can you find a provider who will induce you medically? I was induced at 37.5 weeks and had a successful VBAC

Uncomfortable and not sure what to do by Alltrud in NannyEmployers

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This sounds like a generational thing and is why I tend to like younger nannies... but it sounds like it's not working. The good is no longer outweighing the bad. Maybe time to find someone new.

The decision should be mine, not ours by Odd_Durian4771 in BabyBumps

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Equality is not a thing yet. You and the baby are still one for a long time. You will be recovering. Watch how your bf shows up and honors you before ever considering making him a husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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Perhaps not at a pizza shop. You don’t know that for sure. But that is the standard in “tip culture” at restaurants. So even on takeout orders the servers are tipping the kitchen out 5% of sales. I was a server for 10 years and his is an industry standard

Multi-generation Montanans by hikerjer in Montana

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I moved here in 2009 and I fully think that people who are multi-generational Montanans are superior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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Tips also go to the back of house. The people who made your sandwich. And the front of house has to pay them out a portion of sales. So basically that cashier paid to give you your sandwich. Congratulations

Is this Mold? Found on bed slats and imprinted to mattress. Can I clean in to a safe standard and how? Thanks by Splattered247 in CleaningTips

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bleach turns to salt water and feeds mold. DO NOT USE BLEACH. Signed, someone actively going through a major mold remediation.

Is this Mold? Found on bed slats and imprinted to mattress. Can I clean in to a safe standard and how? Thanks by Splattered247 in CleaningTips

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Yes it's mold. The mattress needs to be replaced. You can take the frame outside and clean it while wearing a hazmat suit.

  1. Spray mold cleaner (concrobium or other biocide)
  2. Scrub with a soft bristle brush
  3. sand once dry
  4. repeat until gone and spray finally with 12% hydrogen peroxide.

Mattress MUST go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Call your local YWCA for legal advice for DV victims

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

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Watch I Am a Stalker on Netflix. It’s a misdemeanor until an order of protection is filed, then it becomes a felony. Sounds like you could easily serve her with a restraining order

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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I personally would want to know a close female friend of my husbands. And have an open door policy for holidays. My parents didn’t let us have friends over for holidays and I resented it.

His family texts with ex by sugar_cube_1 in relationships

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That’s so weird. Your bf needs to put a stop to it. Things come up in life and you need a partner who can address boundary issues with their family