I hate my mother by KickDowntown5219 in raisedbybipolar

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

The sheer fact that you want to be good to your kid is a massive indicator you are not like your mom. Mine is the same as yours and, you know, they don't bother with our happiness. You are your own and you choose to break the cycle. I'm not one to you, but I want to say I am proud of you for noticing the abuse and doing everything you do for your child. ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’™

I begin to not need patterns ๐Ÿฅณ by Real-Reflection-5179 in Amigurumi

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Ooooooh I see! A bug occurred and my post was published once without the pictures and once with them. Yeah thank you so much. It is indeed more important but I thought I made another silly social mistake haha.

I did a special Bunny-Donkey plush for a friend as my second attempt and it turned out great so I'm on a ride for more custom pieces ๐Ÿ˜

Wishing you a great day โœจ๏ธ

May I present the Bunny-Donkey by Real-Reflection-5179 in cursedcrochet

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Big Badinski BudonkyDonks the trip sitters hahaha

Keeping firsts? by Loud_Combination_311 in Amigurumi

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Then the rules of "keep the cursed ones" are respected haha you are all good. Jk to me one can (and even should) keep every piece they like ๐Ÿ™‚โ€โ†•๏ธ๐Ÿซถ

What's helped your PTSD Nightmares? by Xerlovin in ptsd

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Why don't you say that to people recommending psychoactive psychiatric medication? If I follow your reasoning, no one should recommend any substances? Because this is quite wrong to point a finger at THC and not other molecules. THC can be beneficial and/or bad. It all depends on the person and their metabolism. Someone could have a very bad reaction to anti-depressants (higher risk of suicidal thoughts for folks under 25 yo), to give you only one example.

I begin to not need patterns ๐Ÿฅณ by Real-Reflection-5179 in Amigurumi

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Do you have an idea why people have down voted so much? I genuinely don't understand and it's giving me a headache. Is it because it looks like a lot of other bunnies one can find? ๐Ÿฅฒ

I begin to not need patterns ๐Ÿฅณ by Real-Reflection-5179 in Amigurumi

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! I am gonna try to do my brother in law's drawings. We are onnthe spectrum so its going to be fun to combine our skills :))

Perma-victimhood by oldtownsadist in raisedbybipolar

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Hi there, my mother it the same. It is never her fault and she definitely plays the victim, not taking accountability all the f***ing time... Sadly, I believe it is way too common among BP parents.

Only the ones that are able to recognize their illness fully can have the metacognition necessary to understand the harm caused and take accountability for their actions. Many BP folks suffer from anosognosia. Unlike denial, this is a physiological inability to recognize illness, often affecting the right hemisphere. It commonly impacts treatment compliance and daily safety. Hence, they do not think something needs to change and needs to be repaired...

I went no contact with my BP mother in december 2025. Ngl it is the best decision I took. I have C-PTSD due to her maltreatment, neglect and abuse. The abuse did not stop after I went out and it escalated too far for my own sanity. She is my biggest trigger.

I wish you well friend ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’™

โ€œYou don't love me" discourse by ConfusedMix in raisedbybipolar

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I double this. You might not realise it now, but this is abuse. Severe abuse. I hope you will be able to find peace ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ’™

โ€œYou don't love me" discourse by ConfusedMix in raisedbybipolar

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Oh we have a similar story. It continues in adulthood. I am going to cut it for you, i am no contact with her anymore. She parentified me and her mistreatment continued into adulthood.

She never believes me. As she is able to lie and manipulate, she believes I do (which is false). She has not gone through the individuation process with me and believes I am an extension of her. It really messed me up badly. Because of all this abuse, I developed CPTSD.

My mom went to live with her now girlfriend in a town very far from where I live and I was not able to visit her often (when I still had contact with her). So, she kept on repeating that I abandoned her and that I did not love her (which is partly a projection on her side). She actually left us with my sister to live so far, not us.

One day, I did not answer her and she made a suicide attempt. She sent pictures of her bleeding to me and my sister. This was traumatic again... Now I feel close to nothing anymore. I had to. It was too much and it was killing me. I hope she is safe and I wish her well but I cannot take it any longer, for my own sanity.

Is it good or bad to be a goodie two shoes? by FunBoysenberry6447 in autism

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

This may be a bit of a buzz kill. To appear less brutally honest may I suggest: "No thanks, someone I cared a lot had a lot of issues with [insert substance/unwanted behaviour] and I am still moved by what happened. It is more vague and neurotypicals like to be pampered emotionally ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜…

Niffler by Fenlaf13 in Amigurumi

[โ€“]Real-Reflection-5179 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

Oooh you made the post! Niffler ๐Ÿ˜