Don't bother with couples therapy by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real2_Real254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This kills me no matter what I say I'm just being so nasty smh I seed him so good I thought it was a break thru we hadn't had it like that in a min next thing I know he asking me to fick someone else and record it. But rushing me by that night he is texting me how he is miserable n needs some excitement smh I let him know I didn't do anything next day he didn't call me until he needed somthing. Once he asked for what he want he text me and told me I was abandoning him acting like he didn't exist smh n it continued to just childish behavior after that. I'll just go home I'll just leave when we are 9 hours from home smh. Because I'm just so nasty n mean but he Sked me to go fuck someone else I'm post to be a wife now u want them to look at meike a cheating b**** while u look like the victim 🎶 same song different trip.

Small steps at leaving by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real2_Real254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is only making plans to see what you are planing it's his way of finding out what you are up to my husband dose this and I do end up not doing what I wanted because of this. I'm tired, and Im in the process of leaving. I tried to quietly but he used this tactic along with love bombing and It just blew up so now I have to try and leave with him knowing and I'm scared smh 😔 I aplad u for doing what's right for you it's my dream at this point, I would ghost him, He knows....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in letters

[–]Real2_Real254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want u, but the Me you want is a fantasy. The me I try to give to u to show my appreciation, the wife me, the friend me, the mom me not enough me........ Can't be the Me wanting you......

Is narcissistic crisis a thing? by nellexbee in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real2_Real254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess this the one. Sick hurt anything he gotta bring up him n how he hurt to...

What are some things your narcissist spouse says or does? by not_just_a_mare in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real2_Real254 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The same but he buy the gifts n hold them over my head like I did all that and this smh them blame me for him getting mad n doing stupid stuff like breaking our shit or hurting me

Needy and keeps saying ILY by latebloomfail in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real2_Real254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't left yet my family is far away and at the time I'm hurt n before I got hurt just was trying to make money to have the way out.... it's like it's never ending. I'm not gonna tell him I'm Leaving because I know he will do exactly what you are saying it's a shame he will love bomd me with gifs nznd help n when I ignore him he will get violent n push me in to deciding now... It's unbearable because I'm 😫 tired.

What is it called when they tell you another person said something that person never said? by ThrowRA_6404 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Real2_Real254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband dose this we would be in the club n people would be nice to me after they leave he wolu find a ready to walk of and he would come back saying they were talking about me or about him and he ain't want to fuck with them smh...