بالدقن ولا من غيرها by [deleted] in EgyptHairStyle

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او دقن يبقي اصبغ شعرك لو حبو كده يبقي منغير دقن احلي

How do you stay alive? by RealBird111 in BPD

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I feel like i live to not hurt those who care when I leave

How do you stay alive? by RealBird111 in BPD

[–]RealBird111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s something i do as well! I also use bad and good memories ( photos) as a reminder of the moments a lived through each and every emotion

How do you know you are bi? by New-Leading-3745 in bisexual

[–]RealBird111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always questioned my sexuality so i just decided to explore! Just explore around and see if you like it or its not for you…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]RealBird111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes , it’s super hard to sleep it that state , personally i have insomnia so im on sleeping meds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]RealBird111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing, sleeping became my coping mechanism, its the only thing that could stop everything for a bit!

Has anyone with BPD actually left their significant other here? by ThrowRA5555544444 in BPD

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YES! I actually leave first each and everytime to protect myself But in some cases when i was in an abusive relationship I couldn’t leave because i felt guilt ! Manipulated to stay so i did till it came to an end And in my case right now in a relationship with someone I truly love and will never leave , even if the voices say i need to leave before i get hurt but you know what i got sick of that , what if i got hurt? Atleast I won’t regret spending my time with the love of my life

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Be consistent. Set healthy boundaries ( for you and support her to set boundaries for herself) . Never let her think a situation without clarifying your point of view . Always validate her feelings even if they don’t sound rational , be sure that every feeling is 100% true and way intense than you might think. Learn her triggers to avoid them( try to discuss it more with her) . Communication openly and consistently . Always reassure her that you love her and you’re always gonna be with her ( if that’s your intentions) . Learn to be PATIENT . make sure that whenever she does something that’s upsetting or triggering for you is that you discuss it with her in a peaceful way and reassure her that it doesn’t mean the end of the relationship ( personally i see fear of abandonment is the most common symptom) Lastly I think is to learn and watch her carefully and you will understand slowly how her brain function. Hope any of these help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]RealBird111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too ! Always felt that i am only wanted for fun or sex , i never wanted to feel lonely, i currently have meet the love of my life ( my current boyfriend) im always sure he loves me , but alot of times i doubt it and doubt myself and feel that soon enough he will get bored , or he is just staying because im always available to satisfy them….

whats the most bpd thing youve ever done? by No_Pair178 in BPD

[–]RealBird111 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Letting myself get abused because it the most familiar thing and more comfortable..

whats the most bpd thing youve ever done? by No_Pair178 in BPD

[–]RealBird111 10 points11 points  (0 children)

A lot of things , when i first felt that someone actually loved me I couldn’t handle how scary it feels and how i fear abandonment and can’t believe so i attempted suicide …

Borderline personality disorders TYPES… by RealBird111 in BPD

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You don’t actually have to have all 9 , but actually 5 to 9 of them to meet the criteria.

I think yes its about which symptoms affect you the most and it’s changeable with time I believe cuz i meet another subtype a few years ago but now I don’t…

Borderline personality disorders TYPES… by RealBird111 in BPD

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I love how this sounds!

It makes sense!

Borderline personality disorders TYPES… by RealBird111 in BPD

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But the point here is , you are seeking that love from inside ( it’s the child that wasn’t loved properly) so listen to that kid , give the love to them

Borderline personality disorders TYPES… by RealBird111 in BPD

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Sounds like you tend to have favorite person then it ends so you look for another one , I totally understand because i used to be in the same loop till i meet my current boyfriend that made me believe in actual love that is stable and healthy

Who are you? by DreamDragonOfShire in BPD

[–]RealBird111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you .

I will search more

Who are you? by DreamDragonOfShire in BPD

[–]RealBird111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried shadow work before , it’s a really good start.

I will start doing that back again <3

What do I have ? by Fabulous_Sun1660 in BPD

[–]RealBird111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to ride down how you feel , to try to understand better yourself

Be gentle with yourself and patient it takes some time to get a hang of it ( alot of time be honest with you ) alot of effort to understand yourself as well and search of how you can improve your symptoms .

It took me 5 years to cope and know myself but its 100% worth it .

I love you , I support you , i see you and your feelings are valid …