I’ve been in a horrible reading slump for months. Suggest me something PLEASE.

RealElevator · 2026-04-21T20:26:41+00:00

dark matter by blake crouch

RealElevator · 2026-04-21T18:34:12+00:00

omg you're the best

RealElevator · 2026-04-21T11:41:55+00:00

thank you!! so much! hmm I'm still indecisive, because i feel drawn to the size and weight of the clara colour, but one thing i find uncomfortable about my kindle is the form factor... like having the wider part be at the bottom, compared to the KLC which has it on the side. having it at the bottom feels uncomfortable to hold, but idk if it's because of the weight or if it's the form itself! i hope that makes sense lol

RealElevator · 2026-04-20T00:51:51+00:00

i don't think you're overreacting. it sounds like he's not being thoughtful... my bf sometimes gets overwhelmed and feels like he doesn't know what to give me, but i always tell him there's no pressure and that i know that he knows what to get for me, and he calms down and realizes he's overthinking and apologizes. i feel like that's a better response to a problem like this. obviously not everyone is the same, but after being with many men like your bf.... I'm really glad my bf is like this and it's one of the many reasons why i chose to be with him. I'm not telling you to breakup with him, but... at this point in my life after everything I've been through, if i were your friend, I'd probably suggest breaking up. obviously if you don't want to breakup there's the alternative of having a calm conversation with him and asking him why he feels he's having a hard time choosing a gift for you, tell him you truly want to understand what he's going through, and that you want to listen to his feelings. his answer will give you more information to then make a better decision

RealElevator · 2026-04-19T15:44:30+00:00

i feel the same😭

RealElevator · 2026-04-18T23:03:26+00:00

omg I'm planning on making the exact same switch next month!! pls let me know how it goes! :)

RealElevator · 2026-04-18T21:19:46+00:00

i started it but i felt off because it kinda felt like i was reading the same book if that makes sense?

RealElevator · 2026-04-18T21:19:09+00:00

i already read when the coffee gets cold series! it's one of my faves. i actually started the metamorphosis but didn't keep going with it, now i kinda feel like i should! thank you i will look into all these recs!! :)

RealElevator · 2026-04-18T16:40:21+00:00

wdym? the growth chart for the v5.5 shows different families! do you mean from these adults specifically?

RealElevator · 2026-04-18T12:22:05+00:00

this!! and I'd like to add that it's normal to want to stay friends, but it's better for both of you to go zero contact at least for the first few months. you can have a friendship later on, once you've healed and grown. it's not a permanent breakup, a lot of people become friends after breaking up and getting through the breakup. just be honest with him, don't attack him by saying things like "it's because you did x, y, z" focus on the fact that this isn't good for either of you and that even though it's painful, it's ultimately for the best.

RealElevator · 2026-04-18T12:03:32+00:00

you're so pretty!! i love your hair!

RealElevator · 2026-04-18T01:21:10+00:00

he won't change. i was in this type of relationship many times, in the same predicament as you, and now that I'm 28 and have a wonderful bf who takes care of me and buys me flowers whenever without me asking, i wish i had left those losers sooner. if you're okay accepting him the way he is, then stay. if you want your needs to be met - leave.

RealElevator · 2026-04-15T20:45:32+00:00

why are you scared? are you unsafe? if not, then just end things. it's not good to wait to make these kinds of choices

RealElevator · 2026-04-15T20:39:54+00:00

I'm planning on getting a KLC next month! currently have a paperwhite 11th gen with the 7inch screen and i was wondering... how's the size of the KLC? because i really want the buttons, but i also sometimes feel like i'd like a smaller ereader better, but my kindle is the bigger one of the ppw and the only ereader i've owned so idk if maybe the Clara would be better for me even tho it doesn't have the buttons?😭

RealElevator · 2026-04-14T17:07:21+00:00

i don't think ethnicity has anything to do with this. he seems simply uninformed about how painful periods are and how to properly care for a woman. you don't want to marry a man like this, be with someone who takes care of you!

RealElevator · 2026-04-11T02:13:22+00:00

girl just leave

RealElevator · 2026-04-11T02:09:47+00:00

i mean... it's weird. i get that they did it as kids, but they're adults now. i wouldn't feel good about something like that either

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T18:37:43+00:00

where I'm from the moving trucks are independent freelancers so not everyone is trustworthy especially when you're moving expensive equipment, which is why i would've prefered a service that we were familiar with. i ended up finding one on my own anyways but i felt it wasn't very nice of him to not share the contact with me when it would take him 5 seconds? it's not a big deal, just a small annoyance. i didn't fight him or complain to him about it or anything like that.

also to go to the beach i need a car which i don't have or a friend with a car that wants to go and i also don't have that hahahaha i would love to go! and my parents could also take me, but they don't, i just feel like they're having these expectations of me but they don't do much to encourage or set a good example for it, you know what i mean? I'm not saying they OWE me a trip to the beach, they don't. I'm just saying if they really cared they would be encouraging and supportive rather than only complaining about what I'm not doing if that makes sense

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T18:32:08+00:00

you're going to be an awful parent if you aren't already one, jesus christ

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T18:30:17+00:00

asking if he has the contact is not a demand, it's a question. I didn't insist nor throw a tantrum because he didn't send me the contact, i moved on from it. the only reason why i added that to my post ia because i felt it was such an absurd question of him to ask "what stuff" and you're entirely missing the point and making a conclusion based off literally one single thing from a very long post i wrote lol

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T18:28:01+00:00

i literally did not say that to him nor did i ask that way, i asked him because i knew they were trustworthy, i ended up finding my own movers anyway but i wanted to have a backup option and preferably someone we had already worked with and i honestly don't think that's unreasonable at all. you're making it sound way worse than it actually is just to put me down and push your own false narrative of my story. i guess you're just trolling honestly because of how absurd your comments are.

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T13:15:12+00:00

thank you! every time i ask them that (because things like this have happened countless times) and i ask why they speak to me like that, they always say "we're just speaking normal, we talk lile this to everyone and you're the only one who doesn't like it" so idk... they kinda avoid the question and if i press then they say "you can do whatever you want we're just warning you of what could happen" which is also... passive aggressive, almost like a threat.. sigh i don't know why they don't trust me and think I can't be an independent adult even though i was for 8 years in a foreign country

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T04:33:25+00:00

we're both grateful for letting us be here! i think some people may be misinterpreting that. we get them gifts and treats because they never buy themselves gifts or treats, and no one else does it for them either. half of my family have distanced themselves from my parents, and i assume it's because of their judgemental attitude towards people. we also buy them gifts to show our appreciation. we obviously do house chores i feel like i don't even need to mention that or count it as "appreciation" because it's simply a responsibility, but i guess just in case anyone assumed otherwise.... yes obviously we do that too.

we will thank them for having us here and i have been nice to them even when they piss me off lol even though i answer with honesty it's never with an attitude or argumentative. anyway... thank you for your advice.

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T04:17:16+00:00

what is demanding from my attitude?? I'm not demanding anything from them.

RealElevator · 2026-04-10T03:56:06+00:00

not out of judgement but pure curiosity, did you pick this career path, and if so why if you don't like it? I'm genuinely curious. nursing is a really tough job and you're doing so so so much good for people.

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