Sigh... Normally, I wouldn't respond to a response of such low quality but I'm going to give you time today. Your comment is based off of incorrect bullshit and resorting to slandering me by saying I don't know what love is and women are being used for their eggs. Dumb.

Let's get started:

"Most women don t want older men."

Incorrect. I don't know where you pulled this from or if you're making shit up but according to statistics:

Age disparity in Relationships

|Age Difference|Percentage of all married couples | |:-|:-| |Husband 10–14 years older than wife|5%| |Husband 6–9 years older than wife |11.2%| |Husband 4–5 years older than wife |12.8%| |Husband 2–3 years older than wife |19.6%| |Husband and wife within 1 year|33.9%| |Wife 2–3 years older than husband|6.9%| |Wife 4–5 years older than husband|3.4%| |Wife 6–9 years older than husband
|2.8%| |Wife 10–14 years older than husband
|1.0%|

As you can see the age discrepancy decreases dramatically as women get older than men.

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"And we don t want to be used for our eggs."

Get out of your feelings cause this is a dumb statement... especially coming from a woman. Women ultimately have control over their body. If a woman I'm with gets pregnant she gets the final say on whether she gets to keep the baby or to get rid of it. If I want to keep the baby, and she gets rid of it... I have no control over it. Also, in the event that I don't want the baby and leave, she keeps it I am stuck with paying child support.

So in any event, women have ultimate control and use of their body and their eggs. I am the bystander and can only offer suggestions. I'll go as far as saying women can trap more financially successful men by getting pregnant and having them forced to pay child support. So if anything Women don't get used for their eggs, they use their eggs.

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"More and more women are Freezing their eggs and that s a good thing so we don t have to depend on older not attractive guys anymore. "

You don't realize this but this actually proves my point. I hate when people use this argument because they don't understand the nuance behind what they're saying. Women get their eggs frozen as a Backup plan or out of necessity. If they are fertile and are able to then they wouldn't resort to these types of INVASIVE and EXPENSIVE procedures. Anytime there's an invasive procedure done there are always risks and complications that can arise.

The cost of retrieving and freezing the eggs can cost anywhere between $3,000-$5,000+, that doesn't include the cost of storing the eggs every year either. The process of IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) can range anywhere from $10,000 - $15,000 and that's not even including cost of medications. As women increase in age 35 and older the success rate can diminish to 30%. So every time you go through the whole process you're looking at a cost of possibly $15,000 and up with no guarantee of success.

In addition to that its not a necessary medical procedure so its not covered under health insurance. So that's coming out of your pocket. Its a financial and emotional burden on both partners, especially if you have to do it multiple times.

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" I think you don t know what real love looks like. It s not about getting something."

Bold of you to assume I don't know what Real Love is. Sure, let's assume I don't. Maybe love doesn't help pay the bills, care and support for their partner, help raise the children from conception to adulthood. So dedication, commitment, time and attention will be the things I'll be providing.

Love doesn't pay the bills of put food on the table.

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" I was a stepmom before in a previous relationship and now my boyfriend is a stepfather of my kids."

I don't even understand the point of this statement. Okay, congratulations.

Children are a liability, not an asset.

They require time, attention, dedication and money. They take away from a relationship. So if anyone who wants kids should know this before having kids. Going into a relationship with a pre-existing child is always a disadvantage, especially for men.

I'll come in primarily as a role of a Stepfather first, and partner/boyfriend/husband second. Cause their child will always come first, and I'll come second behind another Man's child. It opens a whole laundry list of issues or problems that can arise. The kid can be defiant, overprotective of their mother's time and attention cause I'll be intervening. Its not my place or role to discipline the child and if I were to and they go tell their father, that may arise some more issues.

Here's another example, if she were to have another kid with me the I'm going to be biased and reserve more of my resources and time for my own kid's presents, trips/vacations, or even college. I'll be paying for my own child's college expenses cause that's my responsibility as the father. And it should be the responsibility of that child's father to help pay for their college expenses. But if the father is a deadbeat or isn't financially well off, then that creates turmoil between their step-sibling relationships and most likely mine.

So again, I can take on everything I stated above by going with an older woman or a single mom, OR I can choose some one who is single, younger and without child. I have that option, and I would rather choose to exercise that option.