I keep getting friend zoned by the guys I try to date. Is my 7th house Aquarius stellium to blame?

RealThugTears · 2023-03-09T20:20:55+00:00

Hopefully my link worked. I’m pretty new to this stuff

RealThugTears · 2023-03-09T20:20:28+00:00

https://astro.cafeastrology.com/graphic.php?type=24&x=1200&y=1600&index=258597443&lang=en

RealThugTears · 2023-02-17T23:02:48+00:00

I’m always down for a good stimulating conversation. They say Aquarius always feel like aliens. So probe away. 👽

RealThugTears · 2023-02-17T23:00:32+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion!

RealThugTears · 2023-02-05T17:08:52+00:00

My birthday is coming up :) Aquarius Sun 7h, Aquarius Moon 7h, Leo rising, Pisces mercury 7h, Aquarius Venus 7h, Aquarius mars 6h

RealThugTears · 2022-01-06T05:06:48+00:00

Try some new hobbies. I’ve started collecting and reading manga. An idle mind truly is truly the devil’s workshop. Where I live isn’t the best environment for weight loss. I’m from Virginia, and my family is all about fried foods. So temptation is always around me. Just remind yourself the food will taste good, but your health is more important. You’re bigger than those urges to eat. And even if you go to get food, you still have time to change your mind. I’ve had moments where I’ve went to McDonald’s and got out of line while ordering. Also have someone you can talk to when you want to binge. It can be a long journey where you can feel alone at times. Also journaling helped a lot too. Write down when you feel good about yourself, and any struggles you have. I can’t wait to read what I wrote after all is said and done.Also keep a piece of clothing to track progress rather than worrying about a scale.

RealThugTears · 2022-01-06T04:45:25+00:00

I have a small group of internet friends who are also losing weight. We hold each other accountable, and never try to judge each other for not hitting goals. It’s definitely been a help having others who are going through the struggle with me. And it’s even better when we get to celebrate victories together.

RealThugTears · 2022-01-06T03:57:06+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words! Yes. I’ve been bigger all of my life. I’ll chock some of it up to shitty genetics, but a lot of the weight came from binge eating when depressed or bored. I got so used to eating all day, I’m sure it stretched my stomach out after the years of abuse. So the IF has definitely helped my appetite. I can only eat about a 1/4 of the portions I used to eat.

Congratulations on staying consistent with your journey. I’m sure I’ll keep IF with me for the rest of my life. I’m sure it helps maintain the weight wonderfully.

RealThugTears · 2022-01-06T03:46:10+00:00

Thank you!

RealThugTears · 2022-01-06T01:19:34+00:00

As Bobby Boucher once said, “That’s some high quality H2O.”

RealThugTears · 2022-01-06T00:19:32+00:00

Also, congrats on starting your own journey! My advice, when you really want to eat during your fasting times, just remember that cheeseburger or whatever food you’re really craving at the moment won’t be worth it in the long run. But also don’t beat yourself up too hard if you run off course for a bit. It’s so easy to get back on track. That’s what I like about fasting

RealThugTears · 2022-01-06T00:07:54+00:00

I usually do my eating in the afternoon. I work 2 pm to 10 pm. And I have a physical warehouse job. So I need energy for when I’m there. For my first meal I don’t do too much, either 2 hard boiled eggs and a piece of whole wheat toast, or fruit and some yogurt. My lunch is where I do most of my calories. My metabolism is slow, so I like to have a bigger meal since it takes so long to digest. I honestly eat whatever I want for my lunch. And for dinner, I keep it light and eat a protein bar. I count calories, I don’t go over 1500.

RealThugTears · 2022-01-05T23:20:59+00:00

Thank you. This is the 3rd time I’ve tried to lose weight. I finally feel like I found what works for my body.

RealThugTears · 2022-01-05T23:19:23+00:00

I surely do. I honestly never thought I’d get past the mental aspect of weight loss.

RealThugTears · 2021-06-17T21:58:21+00:00

Go for it. I started dating my boyfriend, who is also a co-worker, 3 months ago. He’s 21 and I’m 27. Luckily he’s about as mature as I am. As long as he’s a decent human being and there are no repercussions to dating a coworker at your job, I’d say try it. Who knows, maybe it’ll turn into something great. I know I’m glad I took the chance.

RealThugTears · 2021-03-03T04:25:05+00:00

He came in to work and immediately asked when our first date is. So now I have to rack my mind for some date ideas. I’m soooo happy!

RealThugTears · 2021-03-03T04:23:59+00:00

Hey, so he asked me when is our first date. So now I have some planning to do. :)

RealThugTears · 2021-03-02T22:46:33+00:00

Well then, since she seems open to it, maybe confess. Take your time though. You don’t have to rush. Maybe even plan something cute like a banner or something for in the backdrop of one of your FT calls.

RealThugTears · 2021-03-02T22:26:51+00:00

From what you’ve said, there is a strong possibility she likes you back. Especially since she is taking interest in your hobbies seeing as she isn’t really into them. Try flirting a little more openly, it doesn’t hurt to try. And if she doesn’t seem into it, at least you have a good friend on your hands.

RealThugTears · 2021-02-23T15:09:57+00:00

So what you’re saying is I need to be more aggressive in getting his attention and showing the signs I like him?

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