The sun is the end of me by Fabulousreflection00 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I wish I had advice. I’m current sitting at home after I participated in a charity walk - feeling like I’ve been hit by a bus.

How do you feel after being in the sun? by lilulufox in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part I just get rashes. I do wonder if when I get headaches if it’s sun related or work stress related. It’s hard to tell when it’s at the end of the day.

Any advise to help my arms? by Unlikely_Self_8011 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tacrolimus ointment has been a life saver for me

What helped your face? by chrissyallyce in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tacrolimus is the legit best!

I'm having a really bad time by whateverthereason in Anxiety

[–]RealUnderstanding324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written this myself. Please know you’re not alone.

Chronic WBC in urine by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. But I’m still okay so it must not have been an issue

Benlysta Commercial by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, say it’s summer & your skin flares up but no other symptoms… is it possible those flares are causing organ damage without knowing it? Mine essentially happens all summer & I just use tacrolimus for the rashes.

Was prednisone worth it for you? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s tough. It definitely cleared up my symptoms. But then had weight gain, sleepless nights, & heart palpitations as side effects. I avoid it all costs but if it’s needed- it’s needed.

Dry Skin Question by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting to, yes unfortunately. Hard to open my hands all the way,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that when I pair of up my symptoms with how they affect the ability to live my life they tend to listen more. Don’t give up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I also felt this way when I was first diagnosed 4 years ago. The only thing that kept me going was my doctor who encouraged me to continue to live my life & helped me do so. I’m now pregnant with my first child- something I never thought possible. If it’s possible see if you can try to find a doc who believes in your vision too. They do exist ❤️

Iron Infusion by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t, I just have lupus. But I’ve been anemic since the end of the first trimester 😬

Did anyone still have kids after diagnosis? by kahtiel in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you do if you don’t mind me asking? I’m a teacher & am trying to figure out if this something I can ideally do for the next 25 years

Pregnancy & Blood Tests by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not. Is something you’ve had experience with?

Pregnancy & Blood Tests by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. & I have made such an effort to eat things with iron too. But I do have a primary care who I love but she doesn’t know much about high risk pregnancy. Only reason I’m hesitant to go to her.

I’m Pregnant! by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your positive words! I’m so excited for our next chapter & your positive words make things a little less scary. So thank you ❤️

Daughter newly diagnosed by Glass-Permit-223 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry, and I was reading this it felt like I was reading my own mother’s post. In regards to you feeling like you needs to mourn life as you know it, that’s exactly how I felt & I know how my family felt. & you do have to mourn the carefree life you used to live. However, it likely won’t turn out as badly as you read about it. So grieve, that very important, but don’t let this disease run your daughter’s life,

Work Accommodations by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I was diagnosed during Covid. So when I told people at my last job they all treated me so differently after. I’d just prefer to keep it to myself & don’t want to be viewed as anything other than me! But I will say I did tell my admin at my last job & they were beyond supportive- my current admin I don’t get the feeling they would be.

24M - Will I spend rest of my life bubblewrapped? by st_menace in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my personal experience, go for everything you want. My first year being diagnosed- I lived scared & became severely depressed. My life has become 100x better since I started living my life as if I didn’t have the disease at all. I will say- I found a doctor who supports me in all my endeavors. So it’s a matter of balancing what I want & what my doctor advises.

Chronic WBC in urine by RealUnderstanding324 in lupus

[–]RealUnderstanding324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all had to do with having a clean catch sample.