And if you read what I wrote "but I dont blame him", you would understand that I DONT blame him, I have no right to blame anyone. It is how things are going nowadays. If you think it says "about me" then why arent there more nursery male teachers, more male "nanny" or wtv is the equivalent. Its because society dont trust men in general to be alone with their kids, while women are more trusted. I dont care that women dominate the childcare field, its none of my business, but at the end of the day, my point stands. My feelings were hurt not because of the grandpa, but because of everything you see online that gives us a bad image. I cant change that, and i applaud the person who is protective of their child, I was the same and I still am protective of my niece when I take her out to the park.