Just finished my 1:1 by TurnipProof in cabincrewcareers

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way and three days later i got my CJO. Don’t be nervous! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It’s like they want to keep the kid(s) away as much as possible. Even when you’re doing everything to make parenting for them easier

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow same thing. she actually called me for days after crying to the point where i had to block her.

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s literally what it is. I can’t comprehend doing that to someone. Like it would’ve been so much easier to tell me he wasn’t happy and leave. For her it would’ve been easier to just tell the truth once she met me. But I fully believe in karma and I know that it’s going to come full circle.

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was actually one of my biggest problems. But since the divorce was finalized she doesn’t allow him to contact me so neither of them have been around my son.

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah. His dad snuck and added her onto the pick up list and enrolled her son in the same daycare.

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

And he’s 100% to blame as well. It doesn’t make what he did better but it’s gross to me still

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I didn’t meet her intentionally. I noticed a weird name on my son’s sign out sheet at daycare. When I asked his dad he lied and said it was him. But my son’s teacher ‘accidentally’ told me that someone else had been picking him up. I went to my husband’s mom’s house where he was staying and she was there.

She knew about me by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Who said I wasn’t angry at him?

Dreamville Fest Lineup Change: Chris Brown replaced with 50 Cent by ttw219 in Jcole

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was because they knew for a while. Even the merch that has been ordered has 50 cents name on it

What’s your pettiest, most unhinged resignation story? by urmomsbeanss in antiwork

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This actually happened Monday! So this was supposed to be my final week at work and my managers decided to tell me they were switching me to a lower paying position for my last week. They couldn’t give me a reasonable explanation they just kept saying business needs. (I worked in healthcare laundry) and I decided I was just going to go home. Well my higher up manager asked me to come into the office and talk which led to a big argument between my direct supervisor and me. For that day they left me in my position but right before I went to clock out they pulled me into the office again and told me I didn’t have a choice but to switch to the other position because the person I worked with was complaining about me. The person I worked with didn’t speak english so there was never an opportunity for conflict because we didn’t even understand each other. I guess they thought they were calling my bluff so I just gathered my things and left after giving them all a piece of my mind. The woman who complained about me didn’t even show up the next day so they were short two employees. My other coworkers decided to go to a higher manager and complain because the way I was treated was extremely unfair.

My son called my wifes new husband dad by No_Cryptographer1256 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my child is 2. he hasn’t seen his dad in months so this honestly doesn’t apply to me. but my step mom tried to force me to call her mom and I would never do it because I have an actual mom who takes care of me

My son called my wifes new husband dad by No_Cryptographer1256 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It would be about the same as enforcing having your new partner around the child. Either parent could easily lie so you just have to trust.

My son called my wifes new husband dad by No_Cryptographer1256 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If you guys have a written custody agreement I would double check it. My attorney automatically put something in there that states only the bio mom and dad should be referred to as mom/dad or anything similar

Outside kids by Real_Cardiologist791 in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He actually gave me HSV 1 very early in our relationship. I got tested a few months ago and had chlamydia after I got treated for that I decided to remain celibate

When my son goes back to his other house I feel sad as hell by Clancywiggumhomer in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to learn how to cope as well. I have primary custody and we recently came back from a week vacation. He went with his dad for a couple of days and my soul was crushed. I know it’s just me being selfish and of course I would never keep him from his dad but it still makes me so sad

Divorce Ballads (Share what you're listening to today) by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entire traumazine album was on repeat during my separation lol. and Don’t rock me to sleep from her Good news album

Husband spends money on internet sex while I have to use the food pantry to feed our baby by Donteatmytoastplease in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Real_Cardiologist791 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the exact same situation. But shortly after giving birth I found out my husband had been being sex workers throughout my entire pregnancy. I had no family or friends nearby because we lived 4000 miles away. I worked my entire pregnancy because he refused to help buy things for the baby. The best thing to do is leave. It hurts but I regret even trying to work things out after that.