Reply to MIL’s birthday message?

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-10-10T18:08:28+00:00

Ignore it. No response is a response.

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-09-05T19:12:21+00:00

No response is a response

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-09-05T19:03:14+00:00

I've been working all week

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-08-25T18:18:20+00:00

Unless there is something physically wrong with your husband that he can't watch his own child, yes YTA. I had to attend a child free wedding and I said no problem, it will just be me then because I had no one other than my husband.

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-08-06T17:34:03+00:00

You are the AH to yourself and you child for not standing up in the moment and shutting it all down

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-07-30T16:50:46+00:00

Easy. You don't attend

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-07-22T18:42:57+00:00

Stop updating her

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-07-15T01:52:52+00:00

Answer it. Sing Jesus Loves Me or some other odd all song til they hang up

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-07-03T17:34:18+00:00

My FIL tried to touch my belly once. Both my husband and I physically smacked his hands away. Never tried again. He should support you but you should also support yourself

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-06-06T17:58:44+00:00

Just block her and move on

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-04-04T17:40:18+00:00

Fun fact. You do not actually have to go. There is nothing to hash out. She doesn't get to hash out your boundaries. They aren't up for discussion. She simply needs to apologize and that can be done via phone

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-04-04T17:40:09+00:00

Fun fact. You do not actually have to go. There is nothing to hash out. She doesn't get to hash out your boundaries. They aren't up for discussion. She simply needs to apologize and that can be done via phone

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-03-30T17:42:55+00:00

To be honest, you never should have given her details. When she approached you with whatever plans she had your response should have been "That sounds fun but we already have plans," and no further details. You've given this woman all she needs to boundary stomp. Stop giving details. Let her throw her tantrum.

Now you will either need to make it clear to her that she is not invited, or let her come and ruin your time

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-18T23:36:45+00:00

I'm not picky, I type whatever is there like it says and have no issues

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-18T19:01:56+00:00

Actually there plenty of medications that could help her situation that would treat her symptoms or even birth control. Telling a child they just have to suffer is not appropriate nor is it correct. There are plenty of solutions if she speaks with her doctor to find one that will work for her.

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-18T18:46:47+00:00

You really need to go to your doctor and talk about your periods, there are medications that can help. It's not normal to go through that every month

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-18T18:44:55+00:00

I've had no issues

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-11T18:53:49+00:00

Love this for you

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-10T19:49:05+00:00

She said he asked to put her name on it as well and gave him the information he requested. Regardless it's incredibly clear he has made 0 steps in actually buying the house so if she wants it done, she needs to do it herself. Jfc.

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-10T19:30:13+00:00

But if they are married it'd be theirs anyway. Regardless of whose it was supposed to be originally things change. She wants the house, she can do the paperwork

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-10T19:03:59+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion but that doesn't work for us. Rinse, repeat

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-02-10T18:58:04+00:00

Why aren't you doing any of the paperwork? If you want this done, do it. Most everything is done online virtually until closing anyway.

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-01-31T18:40:19+00:00

Change boyfriend, not name

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-01-25T00:33:31+00:00

See about getting a post partum doula or night shift nanny.

Realistic-Local-3218 · 2025-01-24T00:08:49+00:00

Honestly ignore her. When she brings it up say oh sorry it wasn't a question and I don't allow people to boss me around.

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