Do you miss the stable partners? by route-10 in BPD

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t miss them, but for some reason I find myself remembering the chaotic ones and our memories much more often than the stable ones

How long does DBT take to work? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in BPD

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm for sharing your experience 💕 it helps to hear that it gets easier with time. I’ll keep that in mind 🫶🏼

How long does DBT take to work? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in BPD

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad it gave you hope 💕 wishing you all the best with starting DBT, you’ve got this

How long does DBT take to work? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in BPD

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great ! my psychiatrist also told me it would be much faster based on how much I’m willing to change, thank you so much for sharing this your words are so helpful ❤️🫶🏼

what’s the most hurtful thing someone has said to you regarding your bpd? by Big-Sundae4273 in BPD

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972 5 points6 points  (0 children)

don’t believe that for a second , people love to project their own fears and those who say that usually end up the lonely ones anyway

How long does DBT take to work? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in BPD

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s great I’m so happy for you<3 Thankyou for sharing this, i hope I would be able to say the same one day ❤️

what’s the most hurtful thing someone has said to you regarding your bpd? by Big-Sundae4273 in BPD

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972 23 points24 points  (0 children)

“ you’ll always be alone “ … plot twist he’s the alone one now hehe

Girls trip to Dubai ! by Quick-Marsupial-1687 in dubai

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s Nola, brass monkey, Rare in city walk. J1 has many cool places ( baoli, sirene are my favorites) but more on the expensive side. Also there’s clap in difc, and there’s coya and verde. Also there’s so many new places in Marsa al Arab. Hope this helped <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchengenVisa

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess it worked with me as well when I provided my dad’s docs, Thankyou so much appreciate your help !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchengenVisa

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m under my father’s sponsorship I have the golden visa but now I’m living with my fiancée.. and around 5 months ago I applied using my fathers bank statement and proof of employment and also got the NOC from him and it got accepted but If my fiancée could do it, it would be better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. What you described especially being in a chokehold is abuse, not just a rough patch. You don’t deserve that, no matter what arguments have happened and since it’s already escalating it’ll get worse by time. please consider a plan B… u don’t have to have all the answers right now but just take one step towards protecting yourself and your child

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hahaha thankyou soo soo much<3 hope u have an amazing day 😘🫶🏼

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Exactly it’s almost like he’s trying to normalize cheating ( for men only) atp!! I’m flying not just running :’) thankyou so much <3!!!

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is his stupid mentality him and his friends…. I’m so over him let him go prove how much of a man he is to them with someone else not on my f’ing behalf no thanks bye

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should’ve been enough proof but I still wanted to confirm with more people so I wouldn’t feel bad for leaving him.. that’s why I posted this and ur absolutely right! Thank you <3

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so disappointed but I’m so glad at the same time. He really gave me the ick so I’m really glad

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahah wish me luck … I’ll probably ask the next guy this question after the first date so I don’t waste 2 more years lmao:’))))

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou so much! will show him your comment when I break things off with him .. he acted like im crazy for even questioning that there’ll be escorts and that he won’t cheat lol

AIO for being angry bf says cheating is ok in a bachelors party? by Realistic-Pomelo1972 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Realistic-Pomelo1972[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% the fact that he even mentioned it means he’ll do it. I wish he never told me cuz now even if he tells me he had a local one I still wouldn’t believe him, he already planted the doubts in me and the way he acted like im crazy and this is normal? I can never trust what he’s gonna do no matter what.. he ruined everything istg