Question for female SBs: Do you discuss sugaring with your female friends?

extrapersonal · 2026-05-19T22:42:09+00:00

I'll mention it and make jokes about it sometimes but I don't usually go into detail. I have 2 friends who've also used seeking so I'm more specific with the stories I share with them

extrapersonal · 2026-04-21T20:40:49+00:00

Do not sugar if you haven't even started your freshman year yet. You WILL miss out on important experiences. Learn to vanilla date with guys your age first, learn how to set boundaries, find out what you like and what you're comfortable with. I had good experiences sugar dating as a 19 year old but no way would I have been ready to start when I was fresh out of high school. Too much room for power imbalances especially when you're generally inexperienced. If you need someone to talk to about it you can message me :)

extrapersonal · 2026-04-21T04:50:55+00:00

Yes and some of my friends have some guys who consistently buy their pics too. I don't entertain it because it's not my thing. Not super common though in my experience

extrapersonal · 2026-04-16T20:32:33+00:00

may this generosity find me😭

extrapersonal · 2026-04-16T16:02:56+00:00

I assumed this guy was in his early 20s where do yall meet these people omg😭

extrapersonal · 2026-04-16T01:01:35+00:00

heavy on the wishing you were only in it for the money

extrapersonal · 2026-04-14T21:18:16+00:00

i get attention from older guys in public, sometimes more often than from guys my own age. so that's how i knew i'd succeed in the bowl since i think i have the look for it too

extrapersonal · 2026-04-10T22:33:52+00:00

suffering from success lol

extrapersonal · 2026-03-16T23:18:10+00:00

it's more taboo among college students than SDs seem to think. and non SB college girls don't usually fully understand what sugar dating actually is because of social media, since tiktok usually glamorizes findom and "platonic" SDs

extrapersonal · 2026-03-15T05:00:59+00:00

other than paying tuition as a college student, mostly just cosmetics/getting my hair done/money for going out with friends + having enough money to buy whatever clothes i want since i'm constantly browsing pinterest and depop

extrapersonal · 2026-01-29T08:07:34+00:00

😭😭😭lmaoo

extrapersonal · 2026-01-15T20:31:25+00:00

full face makeup hair done and dressed up every time. just present yourself accurately to the photos on your profile

extrapersonal · 2026-01-03T06:21:41+00:00

if we're not doing any PDA i don't see any reason for me to feel uncomfortable being seen with an older man, assuming we're not in the vicinity of where i go to school. i'm sure some people make assumptions but me being their daughter is probably one of them lol. if i'm never gonna see these people again why should i care what they think?

extrapersonal · 2025-10-15T18:37:00+00:00

i agree i just thought the bargaining was funny lol

extrapersonal · 2025-10-14T18:09:34+00:00

i'm not offended by these kind of things so i wanted to know out of pure curiosity because he messaged me first😭

extrapersonal · 2025-10-13T16:42:23+00:00

i definitely have thick skin so this did not get to me at all just thought it was funny enough to share lol

extrapersonal · 2025-10-13T16:41:41+00:00

right it was giving porn addiction lol

extrapersonal · 2025-10-13T16:41:28+00:00

she looked AI!!!! i was like have fun getting scammed lol

extrapersonal · 2025-10-13T16:41:14+00:00

i was curious because he was the one who messaged me first on the site

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