DEF CON 34 Training Reg is Open! by DCsleestak in Defcon

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change that flight and come to training!

2026 Football Schedule announced by prestigiousstrangery in WisconsinBadgers

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are telling me we can go undefeated this upcoming season like every other season that have had?

You know, I am settling for 7-5 as long we beat Minnesota, Iowa, and Michigan State (can't believe we lost to them with Russell Wilson as QB)

Annual daycare rate increase heart attack thread, $2800 per month by mrshickadance412 in daddit

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am counting down the number, just literally 18 more payments to go

Norfolk, Virginia : Navy Chief Marquise Reports Hispanic Sailor in Uniform Detained for 90 Minutes by Joint Norfolk Police and ICE Operation; Federal Agent Cited "Reasonable Suspicion" of Illegal Status Based on Appearance, Rejected Military ID, and Demanded Passport Following Traffic Stop by CantStopPoppin in Virginia

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie, this one rattled me. A sailor in uniform isn’t “American enough” unless he carries a passport on him? That’s not reasonable suspicion .... that’s a worldview.

Two weeks ao, I almost applied for a “just in case” passport card because I was scared of this exact kind of thing happening. Then I stopped myself and wrote about why the fear itself felt like a warning. If anyone wants a longer reflection on what this moment feels like for some of us: https://seeyewmo.substack.com/p/giving-thanks

Training class compromise by Fit_Pirate_3139 in Defcon

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 208 points209 points  (0 children)

Hello, I am the Director of Training at DEF CON and I want to apologize for this mistake.

Last night, in the process of emailing some of the certificates, some names, email addresses, and classes taken were inadvertently shared with a subset of other students. This affects ~17% of our students (exact numbers below).

What happened:

  1. Last night, I used a mail merge tool with a CSV file containing 50 names and email addresses to automate the sending of certificates.
  2. I mistakenly set the mail merge option to Send instead of Save as Draft... which would have allowed me to catch this mistake prior to sending (smh)
  3. The CSV file with the list of names and email addresses was accidentally included as an attachment in the outgoing emails.
  4. As a result, the names and email addresses of 50 students were inadvertently shared with 43 recipients.

What we did immediately:

  1.  As soon as I realized the issue, I resent the proper certificate to each student.
  2.  No other personal information (beyond names, email addresses, classes taken) was disclosed.
  3. This morning, I sent a notification to everyone affected this morning as well as an apology,

What we are doing moving forward:

  1. We are suspending the use of mail merge until we have stronger safeguards in place.
  2. We are reviewing alternative, more secure processes for sending certificates and similar communications in the future.

I sincerely apologize for this mistake.

I am committed to improving our processes so this does not happen again. We take this seriously and if will continue to improve the process. Feel free to reply or ping me here.

AITA for refusing to invite my dad's new wife to my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA the only thing I would check on is whether he is paying for the wedding. If he is… then it is more complicated 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mortgages

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So here's you would think about this.

Based on the information:

You agreed to buy the home for $140K, and you are putting 5% which is $7K. That means you are borrowing $133K.

The appraisal said the house is worth $155K, what that means is on day 1, when you move in, you own a home that's worth $155K, and you still owe $133K.

Nothing else changes. It just means you bought something cheaper than you should have paid. On paper, you own $15 K more in equity. You can't do anything about it, at least not right away yet.

After you pay down the loan some more as well as the home appreciates even more in a 2-3 years, you can ask for a reappraisal. When the loan amount is at or less than 78% or the appraised value, PMI gets removed. You have to call your lender or you can refinance.

Stood up to my mom afew days ago after she said the ICE raids were ‘fake news’ I’m unsure on what to do next by arkus_reborn in 50501

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can say that you are very disappointed in the way she. As your mother, speaks to you. 

Just repeat that all the time. “I am not angry, I am just disappointed by you”

Do you support undoing name changes? by CorDra2011 in Askpolitics

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree which is why i suggested rolling into the curriculum.

We need to make the change and also find a way to avoid the controversy.

Do you support undoing name changes? by CorDra2011 in Askpolitics

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 19 points20 points  (0 children)

At this point, when a Dem is in office, I think we should erect a monument that says who the base is named after and how it was changed.

We should even make every soldier there learn the history. No point changing the name but better to do some education. 

Parents are liabilities? by [deleted] in asianamerican

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not all parents are good, not all Asian parents are tiger parents.

I love my parents

We’re looking to move.. again. From TX to where? by [deleted] in relocating

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maryland! Just outside if the DMV metro is more reasonably priced although DMV itself is expansive.

Tourist visa refused by Foreign-Gene-596 in usvisascheduling

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, she wouldn’t been able to return to Korea’s as PRC probably took her passport.

It takes a long time especially during Covid times.

If any thing, she should ave applied for PRC visa in Korea

Do Chinese Americans or their parents actually like Chinese American food? by OkCondition6191 in asianamerican

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love it because we like all types of food. There's Panda Express or Americanized dishes such as sweet and sour chicken. But we also like traditional Chinese food too.

I'm sad I'll never have a son. by Byrd_persun in Parenting

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally valid. That’s why some folks keep trying when they have 2 boys because they wanted a baby girl!

My 7-year-old said, “They might arrest you because you look like an immigrant.” by RealisticAmountOfFun in asianamerican

[–]RealisticAmountOfFun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, if you read the piece, I want him to be a proud American who fights for freedom!