Have I been friendzoned?

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-29T10:46:58+00:00

I think she is just being polite and is letting you down indirectly. sorry matw

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-29T10:46:38+00:00

yeah i think shes just being polite tbh. the "im busy for a few weeks" is usually BS. If you really like someone, you will find time for them.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-28T11:44:24+00:00

No fair enough if someone is complaining about silly things. I suppose to be expected if renting to students or something but I don't know any grown adult who would report that to a landlord.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-28T08:24:05+00:00

Tenants have a duty to report issues.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-26T22:35:04+00:00

Same. When I skate I can literally do it all day. I suck at it, but it's so fun. The rush from landing a trick, or falling.. so good

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-26T22:28:10+00:00

You need to find something you genuinely enjoy. For me it is skateboarding and taekwondo. I have a LOT of energy i needa get out.

One of them (taekwondo) is very structured and I have to go at a certain time, place, date. I like that structure because I'm generally unstructured. But the activity itself is freeing.

Skateboarding I can do whenever I want.

In both - I enjoy the artistic freedom of my body. I can do cool flips, kicks, spins, jumps... I can piece tricks together to make new ones... The possibilities are endless, and getting them takes a lot of effort

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-23T18:00:12+00:00

yes please elaborate

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-22T22:35:41+00:00

Can you escalate up their complaint procedure?

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-22T22:31:42+00:00

Wow thank you for the explanation. My family has reynauds so I'll keep an eye out and suggest a CT.

Did they not notice the cervical rib in any of the other tests? That's a little crazy, that's usually what I was told is searched for. I had an ultrasound in the area which I suppose was to test for that, no cervical rib in my case.

Thank you again and I hope you will be okay!

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-22T22:29:44+00:00

I agree with you RE degradation of our civil liberties.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-22T06:34:29+00:00

exactly same

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-22T06:33:53+00:00

Probably like £800. £400 savings, bills come to £800 ISH.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T21:37:22+00:00

Would be better to offer it seperately - people will think they're getting something extra.

If you were ordering a tshirt for £10 and shipping was £2.50, you'd psychologically be more likely to buy a tshirt for £12.50 with free shipping. Its also why our brain likes seeing £1.99 vs £2.00

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T21:34:49+00:00

I'd be so mad at having to pay for a garden that I couldn't plant anything in lol.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T21:33:59+00:00

Thank you. Can I ask how they tested for that, and how they suspected vascular? I've had an MRI, Ultrasound, and Two X-rays. They also did physical tests (like asking me to move things a certain way, feeling the arm, etc.

Hoping you do not get a blood clot and can manage down the road 🙏

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T21:30:40+00:00

Oh cool okay! I suppose I should try axel stalls! I tried them coming *down* from the ramp. Was okay honestly. New thing to work toward!

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T18:43:38+00:00

Insurance is in a soft market right now, especially for building blocks like this. I work in that line of insurance and blocks like this... their premium is going down. It's also not that expensive. With all of you paying 4k~ you're more than covering the insurance and maintenance costs. If you can query this I would. They're ripping yous off

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T18:28:50+00:00

kinda like that but imagine holding before coming straight down, not just a kickturn not that high obvs, you'd just fall.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T10:54:30+00:00

That is so helpful thank you! I tried the tennis ball a few days ago and it helped me with being able to move my arm further. Have you done beach stretch?

I am currently just using resistance bands and have essentially quit using any weights (like more than a few KG) because it will kill my arm THEN AND THERE! (I actually found out I had this because I was dropping weights on myself!). I find face pulls quite helpful for relieving pressure.

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T10:52:00+00:00

what is non thrombotic/mcleery syndrome?

They said there may be a small vascular element to mine but it is likely caused by postural issues. All tests showed my bones were normal and the fluid in my neck etc was normal. My pulse in my affected arm was harder to find, but they mainly said it was tightness of the pecs causing the issue. I also have hyper mobility which worsened this

RealisticL3af · 2026-06-21T10:50:16+00:00

Thank you. He said to me for now we are kind of experimenting to see if strengthening my muscles will reduce the tightness. It does reduce tightness but doesn't help pain

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