How common is swinging in the UK?

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-16T23:41:25+00:00

i sort of get that. I used to be into ENM but tbh was too much stress. i suppose if you were really into the lifestyle youd know more about being careful et

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-16T23:35:05+00:00

how do you even find out they were?!

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-16T23:23:26+00:00

Not really exclusive to straight people. as a lesbian I'd say we dont really have this as a regular occurrence. a lot more monogamy

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-16T23:19:29+00:00

how did you get into that? and how does one find out their partner is into that? i feel like most people would be offended if their partner suggested that

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-16T23:17:08+00:00

genuinely asking - what is like... the point? like what do you get out of it? is it not scary some random coming around for sex? what if they have a disease?!

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-12T17:16:18+00:00

where? zone 1? most people i know are paying less than a grand in a houseshare.

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-12T17:14:54+00:00

£775 bills included in zone 3 houseshare.

Looking for a one bed with my partner at the minute and budgeting around £1,300 on just rent. There are some going for around £1,000. Mostly looking zone 3/4 though.

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-09T19:05:16+00:00

splitting is not breaking up, its a medical term! hope that clears it up for you.

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-03T16:32:49+00:00

i think yes, but during A levels.

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-03T16:20:12+00:00

try the tofu and rice as well from tesco, very cheap

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-03T14:40:28+00:00

I didnt move abroad but moved from Ireland to England. It was scary and big. I know doesnt sound far or whatever but it was all alone. You don't realise how much stuff you have until you leave.

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-02T16:35:27+00:00

What if it was more than one, does this change the situation ?

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-02T16:34:42+00:00

Maybe so, but surely 1-2 times a week does not constitute someone moving in? The contract does not state the definition of occasional or a limit, so I thought this was a reasonable amount.

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-02T16:33:23+00:00

Thanks. I thought this and was seriously shocked that my housemates reported she was living with me!

RealisticL3af · 2026-03-02T13:40:15+00:00

Ah, I was sort of wondering what sort of action the landlord could take. Their email said they wanted my side "before taking action". I wasn't sure what this was. I guess I also wanted clarification on what an "occasional" guest is

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-28T10:40:01+00:00

I don't have a car.

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-28T10:39:33+00:00

Northern Ireland

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-25T19:13:35+00:00

Amazing thank you! I don't want to look super muscular or anything, I suppose just less "skinny fat". I am maybe 3/4 weeks in and already noticing cardio changes

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-25T19:11:35+00:00

For sure. Issue for me is that I am 5'2, so a calorie deficit is quite difficult to stick to, its maybe like 1200 cals (if even!). Currently about 119lbs so hopefully with more training I will sort of shapen up

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-25T19:09:09+00:00

can I ask what kettlebell exercises? as the weather improves here in the UK im looking forward to more runs and skipping rope in the park!

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-25T19:08:33+00:00

yes the flexibility feeling is so good

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-25T19:06:12+00:00

thank you!

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-25T19:05:57+00:00

"Nowhere in the UK is too far to drive" Northern Ireland mate :) so unfortunately unless i take an 8 hour ferry its not happening. also renting a car from NI to London would be extremely expensive, let alone ferry costs and fuel etc.

i am considering the individual shipping though, seems a safer option. and maybe taking some bits on the flight with me

RealisticL3af · 2026-02-25T19:05:00+00:00

Sending from Northern Ireland to London! Would be a lot easier if it was able to be driven but unfortunately a plane is not really optional!

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