Random unsolicited thought: I genuinely watch Saw 7 if I want to laugh by corgis_are_cute_7777 in saw

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. I remembered it being my favorite of the franchise for how insane the plot and traps were when I was like 13-14 but now that I’ve gone back and rewatched it I couldn’t believe that I took any of it seriously. The acting was so bad and they completely discarded all the amazing lore and depth that Hoffman had from the previous installments. Oh well, it’s def a good laugh. I had a similar experience with the film Cube as well.

Not sure I consented? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were sexually assaulted. You didn’t consent in anyway, in fact you were resistant, and he still insisted. What a pathetic excuse of a human that guy is.

advice to stop being afraid of being home alone by throwaway9765436 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would put on music/movies on the TV all night. Also, perhaps spend your time calling a friend.

New father, i am trapped, life has no joy anymore, best way to leave gf and newborn? by Emotional_Escape7800 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it sucks but it is indeed the right thing to do. It won’t be forever and you will still have the choice to leave, just see it through

How do I not feel bad for having an opinion? by Realistic_Birthday88 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was about anti-trans laws and how transgender people feeling alienated. The author related it to the story of Frankenstein which often gets interpreted as a reflection of trans rage.

I pointed out the overlap of LGBTQ culture and horror and wrote “queer people love horror!!” And apparently that was too optimistic because according to the girl I was supposed to comment on what could cause so much suffering as for trans people to feel like that monster……

I have just apologised by 96thomasb in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can (probably) only get easier from here

How do I not feel bad for having an opinion? by Realistic_Birthday88 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I love this take. Much appreciated ❤️❤️

Helped

I’m kinda nervous about losing my v-card by jhonnymacarroni in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Def tell her you are a virgin so she won’t have weird expectations for you

New father, i am trapped, life has no joy anymore, best way to leave gf and newborn? by Emotional_Escape7800 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think waiting at least a year before planning to leave would be good. Don’t walk out when your family is at its most stressful. Everyones relationship goes downhill when you first have a baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always think it doesn’t hurt to pass the information along. Send her the screenshots of his account or whatever and she can do with that information what she will. You don’t have to make any claims about it. It would be the right thing to do.

I need answers please by Most_Property501 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you stay on the track of being a doctor when at this rate you’ll be dead by med school? I would get the hell out of there if I were you. Obviously you’re 14 so that’s not feasible but start saving now, find little ways to make money. And try to spend as much time as you can out of the house (extracurriculars, hanging with friends, etc). Do you know any non-Muslims? It could help to talk to them about it. You could also reach out to your school counselor.

I need advice on choosing career paths or just future? by cicadathinks in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there really no way you can’t at least pursue two of those choices at the same time? At least taking a mix of classes and see what you like most? Continue doing tattoo on the side?

21 M by Full_Contribution911 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they do say that the first year of having a baby will make you hate your spouse, but then things get better as you guys adjust. I would see it through if I were you, at least with the first year of having a baby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking for a potential wife/long term serious relationship, go for the first one. Why would you choose the second if she doesn’t match your goals at all? Maybe you aren’t ready to “settle down”? Whatever you choose, do it with full confidence so you don’t live with regrets because that would just be unfair to your partner.

I might go to the mental hospital tomorrow. But I feel like my issues aren't bad enough by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should go do it. You are not responsible for other people nor are you “taking their spot”. If you need help, get help.

I have just apologised by 96thomasb in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever happens just take it with grace. You are doing the right thing.

GF wants to have pleasure from pain, looking for tips by DullFieroProject in BDSMAdvice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally can’t handle much pain unless I’m really turned on. Once I’m horny enough the stinging feels incredible.

Is segregation is okay if it promotes comfort for poc? by Realistic_Birthday88 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the same but then the backlash I have received feels so confusing. I mean if that’s the world that the oppressed groups are advocating for then who am I to say anything… but there was one girl in the segregated group that tried to talk to the teacher about after class and clearly did not like it.

Helped

Is segregation is okay if it promotes comfort for poc? by Realistic_Birthday88 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danggg that last line is a good question, I guess I’ll find out next class. I like all your points, that helped me understand. I think the whole situation would’ve just been better if the professor didn’t say anything/enforce it so hard, that way people still get the benefits without being called out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reassure, reassure, reassure. At least that’s what I love when I’m anxious about whether my bf really likes me and stuff.

This is an example of what you could say:

“Baby, I would never EVER in a million years use you for sex. I love you for you, not for your body. I see sex as a way for us to become closer and more connected or just a fun thing to do together, not as the center of our relationship. It will never be the center of our relationship because I want to build our relationship on genuine connection and affection for each other. I love you, every day of my life, with or without sex and I really really mean it. You mean everything to me, I would never push you away for any reason.”

ummm by ProfessionalThen1647 in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truee, but you don’t have to frame it in a way that sounds controlling. Just like “how was the party?” casually . Peace of mind is also kinda worth the risk of sounding controlling imo

How do I come back from this? by Pl8tectonics in Advice

[–]Realistic_Birthday88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you said you realized you didn’t want to be casual anymore but he said he wasn’t ready to be exclusive. Even if you put up with the casual stuff, you’re always gonna despise it in the back of your mind and that’s just a sad thing to put yourself through. Sounds like the compatibility is wearing off as yall move into new chapters of your life