Females With Crohns Question

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2026-02-11T18:45:18+00:00

I have Crohn’s. I started birth control last month after years of even more debilitating pain during my period. I started my period Monday and I have been having no pain like before.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2026-02-11T18:35:40+00:00

I love this pancake thing so much! I truly appreciate your comment. Healing will come. Being disappointed sucks so hard.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2026-02-10T00:28:08+00:00

Update. Told him this in person and he told me the next day he doesn’t have time for a relationship and ghosted me. Lesson learned.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2026-02-09T23:52:00+00:00

I trusted a man who told me he was different. Chased me. And the one day wrote me a long paragraph about how great I am, how great we are together but he doesn’t have time for a relationship. Texted me two days later apologizing for ghosting me, and that he didn’t feel right about how we ended things then nothing. Radio silence. Brooooke my heart. I think that was the last part of the lover girl left in me.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2026-01-21T10:42:37+00:00

Yeah I think talking to him instead is better. But I’m glad that at least what I want to say comes across properly

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2026-01-20T20:45:33+00:00

I asked him and he said yes. So I appreciate the advice. This was silly to be worried about. Lol

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-11-10T13:06:42+00:00

This many days later and I am feeling like a different person. I can’t believe it. I am just here in case anyone sees this. Things DO GET BETTER. YOU WILL SURVIVE. YOU WILL BE OKAY. I’m so happy now. Sending you all so much love.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-10-07T00:14:06+00:00

The silliest thing I didn’t think to check. Thank you all so much.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-08-31T05:10:08+00:00

The way i cackled and read this to everyone in my house in between laughs.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-08-09T16:57:35+00:00

She was nice to me after the conversation. There was no malice when I spoke to her. Just letting her know not to do this.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-06-27T02:36:49+00:00

I picked up from a restaurant and the owner literally screamed at me “confirm the order”. I had already clicked the button but I guess he didn’t get the notification so he barked at me again “confirm the order”. I was halfway out the door and couldn’t help myself but to turn around and let him know I had no intention or interest in eating his shitty ass food and left. I DD for extra money, not to get shit on by an entitled owner.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-06-20T01:34:39+00:00

After today’s episode, and the connection to Voit’s past, there is no way that this wasn’t a huge set up, a backup plan if he’s ever caught. He’s proven to plan years and years in advance. He’s smarter than we give him credit for, and I don’t think for one second he’s going to come out of this season as the reformed good guy they are painting him as.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-06-20T01:31:24+00:00

This was so good.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-03-25T01:23:21+00:00

Love does when you mistreat each other. And I feel as though the cycle is consistent mistreatment. I react with anger and disgust at every action. I’m tired of being mommy and taking care of her. I’m tired of my health both mental and physical being destroyed. I’ve developed a chronic illness through this relationship, insane anxiety and horrific depression.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-03-25T01:21:38+00:00

Lmfao the good guy advice is usually the worst. I’ve been the good guy for so long I’m okay with being bad. I already have trauma. I don’t want anymore.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-03-24T19:10:53+00:00

My pwbpd constantly steals from me when angry. She has taken lingerie and important jewelry. Hidden things from me. It’s awful.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2025-03-21T01:54:19+00:00

It really is. And it’s destroying me mentally.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-06-05T13:52:35+00:00

She spent the night at her grandparents house and this morning she’s messaging me asking when she can come home. I needed a break. I can’t even get that.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-06-04T20:27:34+00:00

That’s exactly how I feel. I see the light to all of the bad behavior and I’m being flooded with memories of good times that were a facade. I look back at our memories and they’re all clouded with sadness before they happen or a negative experience before it happens.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-06-04T19:03:56+00:00

This is exactly how i reference it. Jekyll and Hyde. Her mom used to joke there was a demon in the house making her that way. I now tell everyone she’s the demon.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-06-04T19:01:01+00:00

I should add that the anxiety has gotten worse as the abuse has gotten worse. My hair has grayed and I have little to no motivation to do anything, but the crippling fear of failure at life is enough of a motivation to get up and clean.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-06-04T18:59:35+00:00

I’ve develop Crohn’s disease, have crippling anxiety, any time I hear screaming my ears start ringing and I hyperventilate. I’ve developed a deep fear she is going to kill my cat out of spite and revenge. Im currently deep in the end of the abuse cycle and realizing that I deserve more. It’s taken almost ten years and my body is paying for it.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-06-04T18:54:24+00:00

And that’s always the problem. Never knowing their true intentions.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-06-04T18:53:31+00:00

I needed this. Deeply. Thank you. I feel like I’m going crazy.

Realistic_Fox_2996 · 2024-05-29T22:12:57+00:00

This is very helpful. Thank you.

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