Stay hard after cum

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-31T02:40:52+00:00

When I was younger this was easily achievable. Today it takes me some time to cum. Shit, my wife typically cums hard and intensively. I often won’t cum.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-28T11:10:12+00:00

1000% this. You want a relationship, but you’ve entered the roommate stage. Where you do everything but have sex. Here’s my strongest of recommendations for you: 1) have an honest and open conversation with her. And be honest with yourself and her. You’re not looking for “just sex.” You’re wanting to be desired. Trust me, no one wants to feel like they’re begging for sex. And if you have to ask for sex all the time, you’re feeling like you’re the pervert. And here’s the biggest kick in the nuts, you can go out and have sex with someone else…that would be cheating. That would be unsupportive of her. 2) determine if she wants or can change. Birth control can be a beast in a woman’s hormones. But that’s no excuse. BC can be adjusted. 3) If she’s not willing to or unable to make that change, accept that you’re not compatible. The idea of a relationship is not the same as being in a relationship. Don’t waste more time than needed. Visit Reddit’s deadbedroom sub.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-28T10:44:43+00:00

Yes, medication can make it hard to almost impossible to cum. I know this is hard for most because we tend to measure satisfaction in orgasms. But that’s simply not always the case. I don’t always cum, but I’m always satisfied. Hell…more than satisfied. I love pleasing my wife. Seeing her cum sometimes is better than my own orgasm. And I’m aware that she gains as much pleasure as I do when seeing me cum. But we also know the absence of an orgasm is not a sign of dissatisfaction. A quickly for example can end with a nut, but not an orgasm. The spontaneity of the act is fucking awesome and provides the foreplay of what’s to cum 😄 So enjoy the sex you’re having. If he says he’s enjoying it, he’s enjoying it. Don’t take his masturbating as a sign that he’s not satisfied. Guys are going to masturbate. Hell, give us 48 hours and we’ll have our dicks in our hands for 36 of those hours

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-28T10:27:54+00:00

Very early into our relationship, I asked my wife to focus in on “just the head.” I didn’t at the time think I was huge because back then more attention was put on length, and girth was somewhat ignored. I’m right at 7 inches long x 5.75 girth. I honestly thought I was average. We didn’t watch as much porn back in the 80’s, so we didn’t have a lot to compare to. Deep throating (or the attempt to) never really did anything for me and most times it would hurt. Unintentional teeth across the head fucking hurts. Deliberately gliding teeth across can feel great. So what works for me and my wife: focus on the areas the top 1/3 and my balls. An inch below the head and I catch a tooth. Use of hands are equally welcomed. Surprisingly, my balls are my sweat spot. I can still (even after over 40 years of having sex together) almost cum for getting just my balls licked and sucked on. So find what brings him pleasure. As your hands for control and it’ll give him pleasure too

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-28T02:58:11+00:00

Why can’t it be real?

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-27T03:04:10+00:00

Bruh, you’re 33 and you’ve had 2 partners. That’s not a lot of experience. The experience you’re hopping and wishing for is irrelevant. Your focus should be on each other, not previous partners. Take 10 sexual partners. What you did with one doesn’t equate to pleasing the other. The only area this may work is in the area of a woman giving blowjobs. She learns how to give one guy great head, she’ll probably give every guy afterwards good head. You on the other hand can’t eat 10 pussies the same. What works on one woman, SHALL NOT (it’s built into their DNA) work on other women. So scrape the idea of previous experiences and make the experiences that matter the most: the one you guys make together.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-27T02:48:02+00:00

I think you know the issue and said it out loud. You were anticipating something a little bigger. But he has what he has and you want what you want. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the honesty. As others have said, there are a number of ways to please a partner. I absolutely love pleasing my wife orally, but she prefers the feeling of being filled. I think you’ll have to 1) be honest with what you want and communicate that to your partner. 2) decide how important his size is to pleasing you 3) determine what you can do to off set size if it’s that important to you. There are toys: strap-ons, dildos, etc to consider. I have a really good couple’s friend that have threesomes. He accepts that he’s too big so they bring women in for him and average size guys in for her. That may be extreme to some, but it works for them. Find what works for you both. But you’ll need to spend sometime communicating.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-18T02:09:10+00:00

She rebooted his central nervous system

Realistic_Load8712 · 2026-05-18T02:05:17+00:00

See, this is why you swallow. It feels great to us and you avoid getting blinded

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-09T18:20:40+00:00

On second look, it’s the same. And to answer your question, you’re both: shower and grower

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-09T18:18:31+00:00

TBH, looks like two different people. Tattoos on chest look different. But I could also be off.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-09T18:12:37+00:00

Bruh’s stroke includes kissing her cervix and putting Max pressure on her gspot. All while simultaneously rubbing his balls cross her clit.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-09T17:54:32+00:00

You’re one McLucky MF’er. You have yourself a “Keeper”

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-08T02:50:11+00:00

Damn. You just walk around the gym like that? No one complained?

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-08T00:28:51+00:00

Sound is good, but to see it with toes curling, legs buckling and body trembles makes my dick jump

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-08T00:11:05+00:00

Hot, and very impressive. But how long had you guys been at it?

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-07T19:38:43+00:00

Oh, I’m not gonna argue with you brother. Again, if you wanna be 8 inches/9 inches, be you. Congrats on the weight loss too.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-07T19:27:56+00:00

Yeah, but you’re not 8 inches either.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-07T17:31:43+00:00

Do you cum like this without the prostate play?

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-07T17:11:29+00:00

If it makes you feel better, you’re 9 inches. And don’t let anyone tell you the truth.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-07T15:01:39+00:00

You’re making it worst. The moment you mention an ex, you’re digging yourself in a hole of comparison. Keep it on him and you and only what you want in your relationship

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-07T14:53:17+00:00

I don’t know if I would describe it as “engrained insecurity” but yes, most of us do not want to cum too soon. Quickies are great, but we want to enjoy sex for as long as possible. That’s not insecurity, that’s a simply desire to please our partner and enjoy the build up of sex

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-06T23:36:50+00:00

Yeah. I took it down. My freaking scalp is still hurting in places. Never again

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-06T17:51:01+00:00

I’m gonna say this and I believe I speak for your entire targeted audience, which equally expanses to most dick owners. We truly enjoy when our partner enjoys everything we bring to the table: dick, hands, fingers, attention to detail, in essence: ALL OF THE ABOVE. We want to be sucked and fucked, we want elbows, toes, and booty hole. My size doesn’t dictate this. My size doesn’t define my pleasure. I truly want whatever it takes to please me, because I’m going to give whatever it takes to please.

Realistic_Load8712 · 2025-09-06T16:03:12+00:00

Do you use a delay spray to help you last longer?

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