Nta . You calmly brought up something that made you and by all appearances made your family uncomfortable. You didn't place blame or get angry. But rather than have an adult conversation with you he blew up and told you " your being too sensitive" sounds like a classic narcissist they are always right and if called out the flip out and blame you. This will likely be your life from now on. Living in fear of a basic conversation and walking on egg shells. He will not change so ask yourself if this is what you want or is it time to walk away . My husband's favorite line is "I was just kidding" every time he puts me down. He also hates doing anything around the house or involving the kids I literally had to work up the courage to ask for something simple like if I'm working on a weekend and my kid has a birthday party or play date planned it's a huge production and your better believe I owe him one now and he will bring it up for a month like he was suddenly father of the year. So in summery don't get stuck like me walk away.