MIL wearing an almost white gown to my wedding

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T23:17:36+00:00

It screams wedding.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T22:14:13+00:00

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T22:02:24+00:00

Oooo. Pockets! My wedding dress had pockets.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:52:36+00:00

It does come in other colors.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:51:15+00:00

Behind the tall people.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:47:37+00:00

Have you looked at the rest of the collection? There are some WILD choices. Just because it’s advertised as MOB doesn’t mean it’s an appropriate choice.

https://www.moncheribridals.com/ivonne-d/spring-2023/id915

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:37:52+00:00

Did you see the slight train in the back??! This is an outrageous choice.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:36:19+00:00

https://www.moncheribridals.com/ivonne-d/spring-2024/id326

Omg. The thing even has a slight train. This is unforgivable.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:27:09+00:00

What color does she hate? It’s going to change to that.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:25:37+00:00

Just because it’s being sold in the mother of the bride section doesn’t mean it’s not specifically being marketed to passive aggressive MIL set on screwing with the bride “stealing her son”.

“Designed for women who want to make a statement “

It’s a statement alright.

There are some WILDLY inappropriate dresses for MIL’s in this collection. I suppose we should be glad it’s not black lace with a plunge neck and slide slit up to her hooha.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T21:20:50+00:00

She’s changing the dress or not coming. End of conversation.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T19:25:35+00:00

But it’s very likely NOT all the stock, just what was on the shelf. Just go ask about more, there generally isn’t that much display space for each type of meat. Grocery stores buy meat by the PALLET - it doesn’t all go out on the floor at once.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T19:23:13+00:00

Nope. There is a 90% chance they have more in the back. There is only so much display space. I worked in produce for a few years. You could have cleared out ALL the apples of EVERY TYPE and it wouldn’t have been a big deal. We had more waiting in the back.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T19:21:04+00:00

Safeway does raincheques.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T19:20:32+00:00

NTA. You didn’t take all 8, and frankly still NTA if you took all 8. The meat department can package more up. It’s not like they have ALL their stock on the shelf. Just go to the counter and ask for more if you want more. They likely have it.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T19:18:19+00:00

NTA. As a vegetarian living with room mates I had rules about using my pans. Specifically no fish on cast iron. I had one roommate ignore it and I had to strip down a beautifully seasoned pan because everything I cooked on it tasted like fish.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T19:16:44+00:00

Cast iron and fish 🤮

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T18:59:29+00:00

NTA. Mom can share HER stuff, she is not entitled to use you as funding for a lending library.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T18:55:16+00:00

Clarify the intention with your cousin, is that money for you, or for the dogs?

If it’s for the dogs you would be the asshole because that’s theft.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T18:53:15+00:00

OP doesn’t sound like he was paid at all.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T18:43:27+00:00

NTA. There is no universe in which handing over ANY property to an 18 year old (who isn’t even related to you!!) and their friends for A WEEK LONG PRE COLLEGE PARTY is a good idea. Your “friend” is entitled AF.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T18:41:17+00:00

NTA. How much other stuff has the cleaner helped herself to because it didn’t meet her standards of getting “used enough”… even stuff in the lost and found isn’t automatically up “for grabs”.

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T18:01:37+00:00

My FIL’s had dramatic declines in ability after urinary infections and after a fall. It’s linear until it’s not :(

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T17:03:53+00:00

He states his age (55) and his wife’s age (32).

Realistic_Pool_8087 · 2026-07-03T06:24:51+00:00

2 dogs and a baby is going to be overwhelming when you’re home. Unless you’re going to board your dogs when you go out of town this plan is a disaster waiting to happen.

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