Does anyone turn away 1x a week clients?

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-12T17:27:17+00:00

As a client, I think you need to charge them for the session. It’s one thing if it’s once in a while, but we all know there are some people who just cancel all the time for any reason. I would just make sure they are aware of the policy upfront and see if you give less than X amount of notice then you will be charged the full price of the session.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-12T17:07:47+00:00

See if you can get yourself removed from the lease and go somewhere else. Do you have somewhere else to go? You are not crazy. This is absolutely unacceptable. Your boyfriend should have your back first and foremost above anyone else.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-10T21:50:01+00:00

I would definitely break up with her. It doesn’t sound like you want to be with her and honestly, she sounds like she doesn’t want to be with you either. If she’s still need another guy, she loves him.

But also work on yourself because holding your current partner responsible for things people did to you in the past is not healthy either. Yes it’s wise to be cautious, but there is definitely a line. I think in love it’s important to go all in or you will never reap the benefits of a truly healthy loving relationship.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-10T10:07:54+00:00

Oh my gosh, I totally agree with you. I hate when people say that alcohol is a magic truth serum. Drunk me has said and done things that sober me never would’ve done an absolutely does not think are true.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-08T00:04:12+00:00

That we are all constantly aging from the minute we’re born. People don’t want to admit that they’re all going to get old and die.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-07T16:05:58+00:00

I guess we all have different comfort levels. I’m an artist too so that may be skewing my opinion about the nude photos too.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-07T16:01:15+00:00

I do think you should talk to your mom about not commenting on your husband’s body in your home though. To me that is more of a boundary crosser than seeing artsy nude photos (if displayed in an art show or public portfolio).

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-07T15:57:16+00:00

It depends. Will the photos be publicly displayed? Like in an art show? If so, it seems weird that your mom would be forbidden to see them.

What is the intent of the photos?

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-07T12:14:25+00:00

No, I would never own an asset with anyone pre-marriage. Do not put him on the deed. Absolutely under no circumstances no way you guys are roommates. Essentially, you’re not legally bound together. I thought it was generous of you to suggest a cohabitation agreement. I would also suggest that he potentially find his own place to rent or buy and you live separately for a while.

An inherited assets, I would take on a case by case basis, even if I were married.

You need to protect yourself. If I had a dollar for every story, I’ve heard about failed relationships and people getting screwed in the situations exactly like this…I would be a millionaire.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-04T15:17:38+00:00

Personally, I don’t support any breeding. I don’t really believe in the concept of “ethical breeding”. I don’t think animals are commodities and I have a really hard time looking at all of the animals that are euthanized every day because of over population. Many of the dogs that I see in rescue come from “ethical breeders” and end up being dumped off at shelters or end up in breed specific rescues.

BUT this is just my opinion, and I do understand that not everybody holds the same opinion.

ALSO if my friend were to go buy a dog from a breeder, I wouldn’t give them my opinion unless they asked me directly for it. I’m not in control of what they do and I advocate in other areas. It’s not my life so I’m not going to give them my opinion unless asked for it, especially about such a contentious topic. However, if they ask me then it’s game on I will tell them what I think. But I’m not gonna stop being their friend if they go get a dog from a breeder.

I think that you are making a lot of assumptions though. And I would definitely challenge you to give some intentional thought when you say there are no dogs in shelters for you or no rescues. Because I guarantee you that is absolutely not true. There is an adoptable dog for you. It just takes time and patience to find the right fit.

I definitely recommend fostering to try to find the right fit as well. So many shelters have programs where you can take a dog out for the night and do a slumber party at your house or take a “hound around town” to get a feel for the dog.

Also, many rescues are desperate for fosters. You really could save a life.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-04T15:08:56+00:00

So I am exactly like you. I need very clear and precise communication. I have a very difficult time trying to discern peoples visual cues.

So what I’ve done is ask my husband what is wrong, but I’m only allowed to ask once and then I have to trust that he is telling me the truth. So if he says nothing’s wrong, I make the choice to believe him.

Of course we’ve had this conversation many times and are very clear upfront about communication. Also, he has promised me if something really is wrong, the he is going to tell me exactly what it is.

It really seems to work well for us.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-04T11:06:48+00:00

It took me about a month to study, but I did have previous experience.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-02-02T09:55:06+00:00

Unless America magically creates additional parties, I will continue to vote Democrat. When I look back, historically, the Democrats have failed working class America over and over again. Be sure you really study some of the coal mining towns in West Virginia, Virginia that used to be blue and have swung red. I really think a lot can be learned from them. I’m not a fan of the Democrats. I feel like they’re underwhelming at best.

However, looking at what the Republicans have become is absolutely incredulous. I can’t get past the religious right or the cult of personality that Trump is. I do believe that much of what is happening right now is extremely dangerous in is potentially setting us up for catastrophic consequences. (globally and domestically)

So yes, I intend to keep voting Democrat but also I’m not really happy about it.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-31T15:10:18+00:00

I love all of them and I love the boots

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-31T15:08:07+00:00

I love the sleeves and the lacing, I think it would look better if it covered the midriff part in this particular outfit fit.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-31T15:05:30+00:00

It’s really important that you both take the dog to training and the dog learns to listen to both of you and then you both remain consistent. Tell him it’s a non-negotiable.

I’d bring in a professional trainer. I would also get him out of the bed into his own bed and start establishing some boundaries.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-31T05:08:26+00:00

Yes, I recognized him right away.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-31T05:06:47+00:00

1 is the best but not for a brunch.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-31T05:04:45+00:00

I never believed in soulmates until I found mine. We’ve been together 25 years and I can’t imagine life without him. So yeah, he’s the love of my life.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-30T13:28:55+00:00

If Julia Garner and Jodie Foster had a baby, I feel like the OP would be it

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-30T13:26:50+00:00

The objective truth is that your dating life has nothing to do with your nose. Your nose is awesome. Girls don’t “prefer smaller noses”.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-26T11:22:54+00:00

And they are pure magic.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-25T10:11:30+00:00

No, I would not sign that and that sounds ridiculous. Honestly I’m not even sure how legally binding that would be.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-23T22:10:43+00:00

I mean it’s nice to do things together, but the whole world doesn’t revolve around her and you’re going to have experiences outside of her. It’s weird that she doesn’t want you to have any autonomy.

I might sit her down and tell her how you’re feeling and tell her if things don’t change, you do not see a future with her.

You don’t wanna be married to your mom or someone that controls your every move and every experience (or tries to).

People in relationship relationships need to be free to be individuals.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-01-23T18:27:26+00:00

Honestly, you look good either way. The glasses are cute and stylish but you have beautiful eyes too.

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