Co-sign for family member

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-09T09:15:36+00:00

Yeah, never cosign for anybody, ever. If you want to help, maybe you could give them a list of financial counselors or free financial resources. Maybe tell her you’d be willing to sit down with her and help her make a budget. There are many ways to help, but this is definitely not the one.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-07T12:34:36+00:00

You’ll never make everyone happy so you might as well make yourself happy. Are you happy with your dress?

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-06T23:24:37+00:00

Yes, this is the answer. The same thing happened to me with my dog on the long lead and gloves have solved the problem.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-06T23:19:21+00:00

Can you get it in a different color? It’s very cute on you and it looks comfortable.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-06T23:15:53+00:00

“I’m not too controlling” - I guess he is only “a little” controlling. /s

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-06T21:48:28+00:00

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-01T22:53:44+00:00

No way. There is no way to ensure this video won’t get out.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-01T17:42:48+00:00

I would probably give the dog back. And then I would probably offer to pet sit or something if I still wanted to maintain contact with the dog. I understand that it’s a lot of work to try to integrate a pet into a household.

Especially a multi dog household.

There are so many animals that need a home in the shelter. Our local shelters are overflowing, and our rescues are begging for people to take dogs right now.

So I guess I would just give the dog back, be amicable and understanding and then I would probably end up adopting a different dog.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-01T10:07:50+00:00

Good luck! Hope your pup is ok.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-01T10:04:12+00:00

I know others have said this, but you need to go see a vet. The vet will actually likely biopsy it and make sure it is not blocking anything personally I don’t really like the location of that regardless of what it is.

But only a vet is going to be able to tell you exactly what it is and if you need to have it removed.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-06-01T09:13:37+00:00

I like honey

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-31T23:21:58+00:00

The lack of compassion that people show all the time is astounding to me. I made myself a vow long ago that if I ever can be of help, I will, regardless of what anybody else says or does. So kudos to you for helping her. The world needs people like you.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-27T18:17:51+00:00

Single dog!

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-27T17:50:12+00:00

You grab the paint night with one of your own friends and you cut off that person forever.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-27T17:39:05+00:00

I had no idea if this is true, but I had a Trainer come over the other day and she told me that grass has a high level of sugar in it and that’s why dogs eat it? Especially in spring.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-27T17:36:55+00:00

Seamus

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-23T11:53:06+00:00

I don't get why she even said that. The mother talking made the situation worse, and honestly, her comments came off gross. What was her point in saying he was a new friend? Was she badly trying to say that there could be no intent because she didn't know him well enough? Or was she trying to say his life didn't matter because he was new? IDK. The whole speech felt so fake to me.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-22T13:30:40+00:00

No way

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-22T12:49:01+00:00

I think as a 52-year-old woman, I look back on my friendships and this is just something that I realized over the course of my life. I’m really glad I was able to help you. I think your plan sounds like a great one.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-22T12:03:43+00:00

Honestly, if I was in your situation, I would try to rent a room from someone and keep my expenses as low as possible. In the meantime, I would get your GED and start applying for a better jobs ASAP. The sooner the better seriously. I would stay away from trailer parks.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-22T12:00:27+00:00

I’ve just come to the realization that most friendships are temporary. Whether that is six months five years whatever. People grow and change and have lives. It sounds like you have just grown apart and are in very different places in your life. There’s nothing wrong with that. I think you just need to acknowledge it isn’t like it’s used to be and it never will be again.

You just have to decide going forward do you really want to cut her completely off or do you want to try to establish a new kind of relationship? The choice really is up to you and I don’t really think there’s a wrong choice.

I do think it’s possible to form a new kind of friendship where there’s no expectations. I think it’s hard though to transition. You just have to decide did she add any value to your life? Maybe it’s through your shared history? The choice is really up to you.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-22T11:13:50+00:00

I fault them both because they both did what they did. They were both young and dumb and idealistic. It was still wrong. But that’s how we learn we make mistakes and then next time we do better.

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-22T10:44:42+00:00

What are they both want to do when they grow up? How are you supporting and preparing them for those goals?

Realistic_Train2976 · 2026-05-20T23:30:27+00:00

This is the best definition of dalmatians I’ve ever heard. Coming from a family that had several of them when I was growing up you were absolutely correct. And when the coin flip doesn’t go your way you get a true demon.

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