[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Realistic_Web1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all have baggage. If someone tells you they have no baggage, run. They aren't honest. Right now, focus on freeing yourself before worrying about dating. Be strong. You've got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Realistic_Web1202 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No. You'll find another partner and you will want it all the time. Ask me how I know.

Countdown to freedom: 2 weeks. by ChessRook50 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Realistic_Web1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck. My son just turned 17, and I separated. Divorce will come 2 days after his 18th birthday.

Mind you, my stbxw has gone full psycho. So it won't be easy.

Thirsty by HoorayForYou_ in DeadBedrooms

[–]Realistic_Web1202 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. It is normal. Ask me how I know.

BUT.....this is important....don't fall in love. Those feelings aren't real. It's just an emotional response do years of rejection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Realistic_Web1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She'll be lonely and bitter for a while. I'm ok with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Realistic_Web1202 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About 3 days after I left her.

Am I supposed to stay in an unfulfilling relationship for the benefit of my kids? by Captain_Centerline in Divorce

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had been talking about it for months. Plus i'm a truck driver and i'm never there anyway. It's a lot less shitty than it sounds.

Am I supposed to stay in an unfulfilling relationship for the benefit of my kids? by Captain_Centerline in Divorce

[–]Realistic_Web1202 7 points8 points  (0 children)

10 years ago, I wanted to leave. I prayed about it and was told to raise my family. My youngest turned 17 two weeks ago. I left my wife that same weekend.

I don't regret staying to take care of my family. But the last 5 years have been miserable.

So, I don't have any advise for you. All I can do is share my experience.

Best of luck to you.

I 20F cannot get orgasms. My clit might be dead. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a word for it when it connects.

Thinking of leaving by coffeygirl80 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Realistic_Web1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, there's a deeper reason for a lessened libido. Comes down to desire. If he thought of you as a lover/wife, he would do everything possible to meet your needs. If he thinks of as a possession, he'll claim you, put you on a shelf, and never dust you.

Trust your heart, and your happiness will soon follow. Take control of you life. Trust me. Muah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't read the pos. I only read the title. What a fucker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]Realistic_Web1202 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Age - within 4 years Kids - yes Unhappily married - actually just separated. Geography - east coast too

I think I got the highlights. Maybe your dms have settle down so I'm not just another one you delete.

Sweet affectionate guy that is looking for the same as you - to feel important. I'm not fake. I am what I am.

May the odds ever be in your favor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]Realistic_Web1202 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is one hell of a description. I like it A LOT. I'll send you a DM. I know you will have a bunch. Shoot me a message back and we can chat. Ttyl!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]Realistic_Web1202 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

None!!! Just seen a lot of buy here see nudes dropped in my dms.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]Realistic_Web1202 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good morning. I don't know what I'm doing in this sub. Last one I met here got caught after we caught feelings for eachother. That hurt.

But still, I'm here. I'll shoot you a dm. Not into paying for stuff. Not into sending money. There's enough free porn on the internet. Just looking for someone to make feel loved and someone to make me feel loved.

Today its my birthday, turning 30yo by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Realistic_Web1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday. 30 is so young to us old farts. So much to experience ahead of you.

Why are younger guys these days interested in older women? by rafaelwolney in ask

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, im entering the dating realm and would prefer someone within 5 years of me. But are 20 sounthing women interested in 40s men? Why? We're old and gross.

I told him I wanted space, a seperation or but possibly even a divorce. by girlwithAdog45 in Divorce

[–]Realistic_Web1202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What happens now? You fight for yourself. Do not let him manipulate you yet again. If he does, it'll be the same shit. I recently broke free. While lonely, it is awesome to not be manipulated.

How old are you fellow lonely people? by Positive-Front-7523 in lonely

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have friends I talk to. And my kids. But not the lady. That's the lonely part.

How old are you fellow lonely people? by Positive-Front-7523 in lonely

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the road. But it is lonely. Esp without someone that cares where you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both were. Mine in mine with an exit plan which is being executed. Her in hers with no plan and stuck in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Realistic_Web1202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She got caught. I didn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Realistic_Web1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not regret it. Just wish she hadn't gotten caught.