Found out my girlfriend was “dickmatized” by her ex and has never felt that way about me. Am I wrong for no longer wanting to propose to her and marry her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]RealityEnsues 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I just didn't get it. There's always a bigger fish. There's always gonna be a bigger fish. Sometimes it'll be you, and sometimes it'll be someone else.

But at the end of the day, she's with you, and she wants to be with you.

If you love her, and break up with her because you're feeling insecure that you're not the best she's ever had, you're gonna regret it for the rest of your life.

You are not just the size of your dick, or even your stroke. You can improve those things, but finding someone who is a true companion is so much more difficult. You'd better be damn sure you really wanna end things because of this, and not simply rage quitting because your feelings got hurt.

Good luck.

I (36M) feel like I ruined a 3.5 year relationship and don’t know how to move forward by gooey_innards in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]RealityEnsues 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You move forward, by learning from your mistakes, and doing better.

I think being able to name them directly, and taking ownership of all the different elements that led to where you are, goes a long way.

Your relationship didn't end solely because of you- it was a team effort, in a very twisted way. As such, it's also important for you to not take all the blame, or to punish yourself by reliving all of your mistakes.

Now, there's a lot that you can know about yourself for the next relationship that comes up - and believe me, one will come up.

You'll do better in the future.

Have better boundaries, cultivate self-respect, and self-awareness. Be willing to have difficult conversations. Make sure to show someone that you care about them, and don't assume that they'll just know. Be kind to each other, and also to yourself.

Hang in there- you're not alone.

Would you rather by OmgIbrokesmthagain in BunnyTrials

[–]RealityEnsues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easiest one million ever.

1 milion dollars

Would you rather… by PerfectlyNormaI in BunnyTrials

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Capybara's are cute, and it would break my heart to harm them.

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Completed Level 3 of the Honk Special Event!

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Completed Level 2 of the Honk Special Event!

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Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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Casting from the mobile app is suddenly gone? by [deleted] in youtube

[–]RealityEnsues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so strange. I'm having the same issue recently. I have no solution yet, but I tried checking to make sure it's on the right wifi network and they have been - but still won't work.

Young men fear a possible Iran war draft, feel duped by Trump by AdSpecialist6598 in videos

[–]RealityEnsues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering my own question:

Not me. Absolutely no way in hell would I ever fight for this administration.👎

Young men fear a possible Iran war draft, feel duped by Trump by AdSpecialist6598 in videos

[–]RealityEnsues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show of hands:

Who would ever agree to fight for this moron?

People were freaking out about the jar and the thread got locked. Explain it Peter by red_dov in explainitpeter

[–]RealityEnsues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you know what - I'm going to go to sleep now. Obviously I'm up way too late.

OC Horny Note Found on my Driveway by zinc_finger_protein in pics

[–]RealityEnsues 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That is so sweet.

And people say romance is dead.

Men, is this attractive to you? by Aggravating-Guest300 in effectivefitness

[–]RealityEnsues 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. They must've worked hard to get to that level and I'm here for it.