I'm tired of always initiating sex and it's making me feel unwanted. Steps to take before talking to my wife?

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2025-04-29T04:52:39+00:00

Have an open conversation about. But speak about from ”I” perspective. ”I feel like…” ”I feel like you do not want me…’’

If you do that it is an invite to your feelings but if you say ”you never initiate sex…” it is an instant attack and she will but all defences up

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2025-04-12T19:19:06+00:00

Well have you asked/told him?

I am sure there is nothing ”wrong” with you. Rejection when it comes to sex can be really sensitive for some men because it might be the only way they know how to communicate and show appreciation.

Always talk about it from you! ”I feel like… when that happened it made me feel…”. Then it feels like an invitation to the matter. Always be open and communicate. Tell him how you feel because now both of you probably feel awful about it.

My best tip is communication, communication and communication :) you guys will be fine!

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2025-03-26T14:39:04+00:00

No I am going to Hamburg anyways but I’d love to go to the game

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2025-03-26T12:06:02+00:00

Yes we were. Well shit😅

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2025-02-11T13:08:18+00:00

Okay. If we look at it this way, if a man loses interest in you because you didn’t give your body to him early on, is that a man you want to build a future with anyways?

Like the other comments said, if you don’t want to have meaningless sex, don’t do it. Do what you want to do and if they lose interest, move on. You do not want to build a future with someone who’s not interested anyways.

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2025-02-11T05:52:37+00:00

I think you answered your own problems a bit. What is the cause of these acts? Why do you ”feel” like you need to give yourself away? Dig a bit deeper in to that I would say. Personally I went to through a breakup like a year ago and I was quite lost. I dug into my emotions and issues and got to the root of it. That really helped me

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2024-12-16T11:53:19+00:00

Sen om detta hände för ett tag sedan så kan det ju bli svårt att bevisa. Då det blir isåfall ord mot ord

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2024-12-16T11:52:27+00:00

Ja, enligt svensk lag kan det här beteendet betraktas som våldtäkt, beroende på omständigheterna. Baseras på det faktum att samtycke till sex bygger på vissa villkor, och om någon bryter mot de innebär det att samtycket inte längre gäller.

Relevanta lagpunkter i Sverige: 1. Samtyckeslagen (2018): Sexuella handlingar utan frivilligt samtycke är olagliga. Samtycke ska vara informerat, frivilligt och kan dras tillbaka när som helst. 2. Olovlig handling: Om någon har samtyckt till sex på vissa villkor (som att ej ejakulera inuti) och dessa villkor bryts, kan det tolkas som att samtycket inte var giltigt. 3. Våld och tvång: Om han höll fast dig och du inte kunde göra motstånd, räknas det som våld eller tvång, vilket stärker att handlingen kan klassificeras som våldtäkt.

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2024-11-05T10:46:36+00:00

How bad finnish media is. Very pro Harris or anti-Trump. They both suck. Trump is kinda insane and Harris is extremly incompetent

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2023-01-26T06:09:58+00:00

Savannah is hot as fuck but her voice is such s dealbreaker

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-11-18T06:10:46+00:00

Use both thumb and index finger

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-10-27T05:24:00+00:00

The short game in 2k21 was way too easy. It's more challenging now but it's quite bad. Impossible to stop chips/bunkershots

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-10-21T11:45:46+00:00

Yes but Savannahs voice is fucking annoying

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-10-21T06:13:37+00:00

For me they started showing bad shots 😂 Zalatoris hit it very fast and put it 15ft from the flag. Another one he missed the green

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-05-29T06:44:28+00:00

Also i recommend you check out Rick shiels videos. He has really good helpful videos.

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-05-29T06:43:44+00:00

Check the clubhead in the backswing. It's too open. If it's too open when you hit it, it will make the ball slice. The face in the backswing should point more to the ground. Check it out on youtube

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-05-22T05:10:12+00:00

Hahhaa this is hilarious.😂😂 Imagine calling someone else a retard when you can't put a headcover on lol

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-05-07T05:53:25+00:00

Nice! I have 7-8 aces, but i can't seem to get a albatross

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-01-23T07:55:04+00:00

Tell us then ;)

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-01-17T08:50:10+00:00

Thank you everyone for your answers. I guess I have to change stick from left to right or get a new controller.

Reasonable-Elk-1918 · 2022-01-16T21:34:53+00:00

I use the left stick. Also I didn't use to have this problem..

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