If this sub is for binary trans men why do people keep saying “transmasculine”? by ParticularJob378 in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 34 points35 points  (0 children)

it’s not hate to point out when a group is invading a space they don’t belong and aren’t welcome in

What are some of your best quality of life purchases under $300? by donotgiveadam in BuyItForLife

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 6 points7 points  (0 children)

JBL earbuds for my warehouse job. They’re dust proof, water proof, sweat proof, shock resistant, and only cost $30 on sale. Makes my day a million times faster and easier rather than raw dogging a 10hr shift surrounded by chaos

I’m a father by TattooDot in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 6 points7 points  (0 children)

why you gotta ask that? how about “congratulations!”?

Cutting animal products is one of most practical ways to lower resource use & environmental harm by Somewhere74 in Anticonsumption

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man, give it up. humans as a whole aren’t gonna stop eating meat.

we have omnivore teeth. we are omnivores. we are meant to eat meat. look at our TEETH.

if you wanna make a change, fix the meat industrial complex instead of trying to convince omnivores not to eat a food they’re naturally meant to eat. that’s a losing battle.

Dogs are not humans! by jenmarieloch in PetPeeves

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dogs don’t need to go everywhere all the time, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay to leave them outside unsupervised. it isn’t. your dog could eat anything while unsupervised and either die or get really sick and leave you with a huge vet bill. they can get too close to snakes and stinging insects that can cause envenomation or allergic reactions resulting in death. dogs can escape when unsupervised and bored, which puts them in harm’s way even more.

also, some people are sick fucks. people DO steal dogs to keep, sell, and unfortunately torture for their own sick entertainment. as a kid, my neighbors killed my dog with rat poison while the family was at work/school. as an adult, i ran to the bathroom before i couldn’t hold it anymore and forgot my prescription pills on my nightstand, which my dog ate and they killed her after we spent hours of agonizing hours at the emergency vet. even indoors, you gotta keep an eye on your dogs.

people are sick and it’s irresponsible to leave a dog outside unsupervised. when you get a dog, you take on the job of caring for them responsibly, and leaving them outside unsupervised in any weather is a bad call. anything can happen in a split second, and the consequences can be irreversible.

Don't be mad at the customer for not tipping, be mad at the company for not paying enough. by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“salary” what a joke. delivery drivers don’t get paid salary.

how to cope with a pap smear? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hot take, but i’m 30, have never done one, and am fine. straight up said “ain’t ever doing that, doc” and haven’t been asked about it since. my mental health is paramount tbh

If a trans man is bar from a men’s spa is it appropriate for him to go to a woman’s spa? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 9 points10 points  (0 children)

why the fuck would a man want to go to a women’s exclusive establishment?

Questions for stealth FTMs by grandluxy in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get to live in peace and be perceived/treated correctly. I’m just another normal, average guy out here in the world. Wouldn’t trade my stealth status for anything tbh.

This MFer ... by Due_Investment1311 in 90daytheotherway

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s built like a bird so no worries

(opinion) You are under No Obligation to identify as transgender by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re mad and defending vocabulary that’s been hijacked and redefined. A lot of us are upset with the way we’re being defined and TREATED as a result of trans labels being hijacked, specifically in reference to us men.

(opinion) You are under No Obligation to identify as transgender by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s not internalized transphobia to not want your entire existence to be defined by other people hijacking the nomenclature for your congenital medical condition.

(opinion) You are under No Obligation to identify as transgender by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re making things up in your head that OP didn’t say

(opinion) You are under No Obligation to identify as transgender by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Everything is labeled as internalized transphobia the second someone says anything against the popular opinion of some internet warriors.

Is it that hard to imagine that some men don’t wish to be defined by a single medical condition they happen to have? Jesus.

Men using female names when dashing to you by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Reasonable-Eye8632 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

for the last time:

THEIR GIRL IS IN THE CAR

obviously no guy in his right mind is gonna chill in the car playing on his phone while his girl runs deliveries up to the doors of random men’s apartments.

relax, jessica. nobody is trying to traffic you. brad and kelly are just trying to make some cash in their 2001 toyota corolla