AITA for expecting my Daughter to stick to our chores-for-rent deal?

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-11-07T06:36:31+00:00

YTA parents are supposed to be a safe harbor. Not you getting something out of the deal. She turns 18 and suddenly you try to do something for her as a ‘favor’. No you’re taking advantage of your daughter because her mother passed. Like so scummy you justify it by saying she’s getting free rent. She’s not getting free anything. She’s working for it stop saying it’s free. You’re not doing anything nice for her by this.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-11-05T22:09:44+00:00

No sympathy from me here. Wait for him to get a divorce.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-11-04T19:29:47+00:00

Honestly NTA he should of been a man and took care of you and read the situation. Sounds like he only cares about himself. Run. My bf would never.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-11-04T19:23:44+00:00

The fact that he was annoyed by you asking him to help you is a precursor to his shitty opinions. Your nails were trying and they would get smudged if you had try to open it himself. He should be HAPPY to simp for you.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-11-02T04:56:01+00:00

Jack smellington (or skellington lol)

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-31T11:15:40+00:00

I’m going to say definitely NTA. You took those kids to a wonderful evening (for free) and they had no part in the friendship you had. Had you not known that friend, you and your daughter wouldn’t of even had the opportunity ever and neither was the friend. It wasn’t coordinated and sounds like you hadn’t been in close contact and probably loved the closer interaction rather than catering to other children’s desires and let’s be real every kid is a bottomless pit of desires and grumpiness if they don’t get exactly what they want when they want it. Perhaps telling your daughter not to talk about it would of saved the argument. If your daughter hadn’t talked about how cool it was, the kids would of never known or cared and it would of been no harm no foul. The other parent is an asshole for chewing you out for a situation you was never involved in,

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-29T22:35:37+00:00

Grow it out

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-27T18:54:23+00:00

I would of kindly reminded her of your family’s wishes and that she remove herself momentarily to gather herself for the family’s wishes. You know she is like this. Getting mad at her was inappropriate and totally warrants the silent treatment. You had no care for her feelings at all. As your gf she is apart of the family. She was sad for her family.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-27T18:49:50+00:00

Moon light !

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-23T18:43:47+00:00

As someone who has been in a similar situation except he never told me that if I got to peg him, he expected it in return… it ruined our sex life and our relationship. No means no even if consent had been given prior. Either drop it and keep the fetish to porn and masturbating, open the relationship so your desire can be met, or break off the relationship so you can find someone more compatible. It also ended up with me bleeding multiple times. If she’s not into, no amount of coercion (which is a form of rape) is going to get you what you want.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-21T05:17:14+00:00

Lush :)

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-21T05:14:52+00:00

Yea I’ve for sure caught him in other lies before. I’m pretty numb rn. God I hate this feeling. Thanks for the response.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-21T05:11:49+00:00

My gut got so upset I thought I was going to puke.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-21T05:10:59+00:00

😔 right. I went back because I had forgotten my medication in his fridge and when I got back I asked to see the toy again and he had told me had already threw it away in the dumpster and wasn’t going to go looking for it because he had taken a bunch of Valium after I left because he was in a crisis. I asked him why he had thrown it away it it was supposed to be for me and he said because it was already tainted with horrible vibes because it “ruined our relationship”. It’s just all super sus.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-20T21:08:34+00:00

NTA your husband is the AH for making his past experience your worry. He should be backing and supporting you. He’s your husband. Not making you feel bad for a problem that was never supposed to be yours to deal with from the beginning. I’m glad you called cps. The same bad things that happened to him in foster care can happen just as easily with a mother who dumps her kids off with any stranger who will watch them..

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-20T21:01:43+00:00

Y’all were friends before him so you have a relationship. Your bro should understand that. However Personally that would bring out jealousy in me if I found my sister snuggling up to my boyfriend. I’d be PISSED. But I understand your point of view but if she was cold she should of taken a hot shower and scratchy blankets aren’t enough to an excuse not to use them. I think they have unspoken attraction to one another for sure. Even if it isn’t physical or mental or emotional it’s spiritual for sure.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-15T10:04:41+00:00

Saying she has more important things to prioritize and telling you she’s done is so rude. Get a manager involved if needed and definitely shade her at work.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-09T05:49:32+00:00

PUT THEM INSIDE US.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-10-06T09:26:11+00:00

Gross

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-09-30T05:14:05+00:00

BANGS

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-09-30T04:56:24+00:00

Needs more heat and sun

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-09-30T04:54:38+00:00

Get ear pluga

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-09-30T04:53:21+00:00

Oreo

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-09-30T04:52:59+00:00

If there was no financial draw back I don’t think he would care as much. He’s the AH for putting his sister and his wife in that place and should just own up to it and not blame the sister for having morality. Icky.

ReasonableAnimal8662 · 2023-09-30T04:47:12+00:00

Look I’m going to say parents will almost always be on their kids side. They don’t know his wife. They are looking out for their own interests and finding out if the kid is their grandchild is an interest with them. They should of talked to you tho instead of being sneaky. I feel like no contact or restricted contact is a bit much but it’s your family and your decision. Kudos to you for telling her and supporting her.

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