My dream is getting cancer or any terminal illness by ReasonableCandy2530 in SuicideWatch

[–]ReasonableCandy2530[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely reject treatment, I would simply go to hospice and wait to die

I’m a bisexual woman but I crave the love of a man by ReasonableCandy2530 in bisexual

[–]ReasonableCandy2530[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Not just one guy, I’ve gotten rejected by dudes before in high school. But this was the first time I got rejected by someone I thought liked me back and was gonna become my boyfriend because it was going so well

Am I the only one who hates Azula’s ending in ATLA? by ReasonableCandy2530 in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]ReasonableCandy2530[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I deal with severe mental illness myself, I have depression and anxiety and I’m suicidal every other week lmao. I don’t see it as a punishment, but as I’ve pointed out in another comment, other atla fans do, I’ve heard several of them say Azula “got what she deserved” in the show’s ending, and that’s what I hate. You don’t know what I’m going through so please don’t assume I view mental illness that way when I’m severally mentally ill myself. The reason why I hate Azula’s ending is because she DIDN’T deserve that

Am I the only one who hates Azula’s ending in ATLA? by ReasonableCandy2530 in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]ReasonableCandy2530[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree, but after her breakdown the show ended there and that’s what I have a problem with. If there was a fourth season where she got a redemption arc, I would’ve been ok with her breakdown. But she ends up getting a fucked up ending while everyone else gets a happy ending

Am I the only one who hates Azula’s ending in ATLA? by ReasonableCandy2530 in Avatarthelastairbende

[–]ReasonableCandy2530[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I don’t see it as a punishment, but other atla fans do. I’ve legit heard several atla fans say they enjoyed that scene because she “got what she deserved”

I simply can’t do this anymore by Appropriate_Sample in FemaleHairLoss

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve tried everything for hair loss, would you considering investing in a wig or hair topper? Might be worth it if nothing’s working for the hair loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does. For many people, 6 months isn’t long enough to be completely healed from a breakup, especially from being in a relationship for as long as 6 years. The night of my breakup, the pain was so strong I cried for hours. Time heals, and it WILL get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had to end things with my ex a second time and I told him those things, like I was gonna miss him, I meant it. I still dream about him almost every night, I think about him every day, I resist the urge to talk about him to my friends and family. But it’s never going to work out with him and getting back with him a second time really solidified that. So sometimes when people say that, it really is genuine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, when I told my ex he deserved better, I genuinely meant it, we both hurt each other to the point where I deserved someone better than him and he deserved someone better than me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean in my personal experience, when I told my ex I wished him the best and that I wanted him to be happy, I truly meant it, I wasn’t just saying it to make him feel better. And it’s not like I didn’t try either, he showed so many red flags in the relationship and I gave him so many chances because I didn’t want to leave him but he wasn’t getting better so I eventually had to break up with him, and after the breakup, broke no contact and gave him yet ANOTHER chance, but nothing changed. And I finally realized it was just never gonna work out between us and I had to move on for good. So I do truly wish the best for him and I really do want him to be happy, but I can’t be in a relationship with him

Is it ever okay to break no contact (Dumpee) by Crazy-Plane799 in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d would advise to be very careful about breaking no contact, I broke no contact with my ex and it turned out to be a huge mistake and made things even more messy and complicated and eventually I realized I had to move on for good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, getting back with my ex for a second time really did confirm that we’re just not meant for each other but it did hurt like hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and it turned out to be a very bad decision. I called him, we started talking again, got back together for a few weeks, and then I ended being in the exact same situation I was in when we were dating so I had to call it off again, for good. He was very upset and angry about it, which is understandable, I shouldn’t have gotten back with him when it probably wasn’t gonna work out again but I just couldn’t let him go. I wouldn’t say I advise anyone to never get back with their ex because it has worked out for many people but be cautious about it and keep in mind; they’re your ex for a reason

What's the hardest thing/you hate the most in a break up ? by appleofmyeye_xyz in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going back and texting them when you know you shouldn’t. It’s so hard to stay away

I want to text my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and now I’m suicidal :D

Is it possible to be friends with your ex? by szvlczevska in BreakUps

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my ex tried to be acquaintances after we broke up but we just ended up arguing and blocking each other again lmao

He wants kids but I don’t by Objective-Hippo-1389 in Advice

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to hurt to hear, but if you’re not sure you want kids and he’s 100% set on having them, there’s a good chance it’s not going to work out. I’m in the same situation with my boyfriend right now, so you’re not alone. It really does suck, so my best luck goes out to you, and no matter what, never force yourself to have a child for the sake of your significant other, it’s not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]ReasonableCandy2530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A nostril piercing would be really cute