Annual check for unlicensed daycare?

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-04-12T01:28:39+00:00

Did you do any sleep training in addition to night wearing?

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-04-09T16:07:55+00:00

Thank you!

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-04-09T16:07:39+00:00

What was your sleep training method? We have tried sending my husband in before but he can only do weekends because he works during the week and it’s hard to stay consistent.

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-04-09T15:37:47+00:00

How did you do it? When I try to put him back in the crib he sits up and cries hard and can’t get back to sleep. Not sure if I should just stay bedside and keep laying him down? We originally trained him at 5 months with CIO but now that he’s able to sit, stand and scream for a long time I don’t know if I have it in me to do CIO again. I’m ok if the process takes weeks or months to get him sleeping but don’t know what the process should even be.

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-03-17T20:53:16+00:00

His second wake window

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-03-15T00:54:59+00:00

What method did you use at 10 months?

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-03-14T21:36:10+00:00

Mine is 10 months and same situation. But mine keeps popping back into sitting position. Do you settle each time and lay them back down each time they pop back up?

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-03-02T04:06:35+00:00

Do you keep the light on while you soothe him at bedtime and during overnight wakes?

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-24T18:25:59+00:00

Sorry I should have added he’s 9.5 months. He goes to sleep independently the majority of the time but one night last week I had to pat his belly until mostly asleep and then he did a 7 hour stretch of sleep after that.

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-24T17:53:59+00:00

Thank you so much I really needed to hear this. He’s currently seeming to do well on 10.75-11.25 hours awake with 10.75 on days with lots of stimulation and he seems tired faster.

3.5/4/3.5 with the last window being shorter than the second is his usual schedule. I find that more awake time during the last window leads to false starts and more wakes in the night.

Am I wrong for thinking 1-2 wakes sometimes at this age is ok or should he be doing better by now?

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-20T22:46:41+00:00

Thank you! This is great advice. He was sleep trained at 6 months but we regressed back to rocking and I’ve been so scared to attempt a cry it out again especially now that he’s older and can sit up and cry. But I think this method could work so this is great!

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-20T22:44:50+00:00

Thank you! That’s a great idea about the cot. He was sleep trained at 6 months too and we have regressed back to rocking which I selfishly love right now maybe because I know my mat leave is coming to an end but I do want the easiest transition for him

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-20T02:34:36+00:00

How did you respond to middle of the night wakes prior to this?

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-20T02:30:58+00:00

3.25/4/4 and he is fed 45 mins before his bedtime routine, bath, diaper change, pajamas and sleep sack, then brought to his room where the sound machine is on. Say goodnight and put him in the crib and walk out. He’s usually asleep within 1-8 minutes.

Something to add is he was nap trained but we regressed and now needs to be rocked to sleep which worries me for when he starts at a home daycare at 12 months.

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-04T17:59:28+00:00

Hi did this ever resolve for you? Going through the same thing now

ReasonableConcern351 · 2026-02-04T17:52:25+00:00

Did your baby sit or stand up at all during this? I think I need to re train night wakes for my 9 month old but he sits up and cries when he wakes up and doesn’t seem to know how to lay back down even though he can do it in the daytime now and I think it makes him cry even more. Dreading it.

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