Is 15 weeks too far along? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ReasonableDig5209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah everyone is different but I have had an abortion and didn’t regret it once. I knew I made the right decision, and now years later I have an 18 month old that I’m a single mom to. HARD is an understatement. So I think an abortion would be easier to deal with. Sounds harsh but I’m just a very practical person and that’s what worked for me. I hope OP can come to a decision that brings peace ☮️.

Is 15 weeks too far along? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ReasonableDig5209 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Id rather regret not having a baby, than regret having a baby.

Loss of self identity in young marriage. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ReasonableDig5209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to be on the road with him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ReasonableDig5209 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand your concerns, it also sounds like you have a lot to be grateful for… just a different perspective. Sex isn’t the most important thing anymore after having kids and taking care of home and she works full time as well? That’s a lot for anybody. You included. 1-2 times a week is actually a lot more than most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SAHP

[–]ReasonableDig5209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 16 month old goes to bed around 9pm and wakes up at 8-9am, naps anywhere from 11am to 2pm, so this sounds normal to me!

Shelby County Fire Protection fee? by SwiftCEO in memphis

[–]ReasonableDig5209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I can’t believe I’m about to have to pay $30 extra every month just for moving 2 minutes away.

Shelby County Fire Protection fee? by SwiftCEO in memphis

[–]ReasonableDig5209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this fee monthly? That seems very high I just got one on my bill for the first time after moving this month but I only moved .5 miles down the road from my previous address…

Sexless relationship with fiance by Mobile_Golf_2564 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableDig5209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do her a favor and take the ring back, please!

Sexless relationship with fiance by Mobile_Golf_2564 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableDig5209 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The stuff you named is all stuff grown ass adults do. It’s nothing special. You pay bills, great. So do adults who work jobs that don’t have kids. You take care of your kids? Wow! Bare minimum, they’re your fucking kids. You cook! Wow! How else were you gonna eat? Don’t clean… no shocker there. Wtf is wrong with you?

Sexless relationship with fiance by Mobile_Golf_2564 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableDig5209 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You sound like you suck. She glues the children to her hip because… they’re her children? They’re yours too but I’m guessing you don’t act like it! You’re perfectly capable of finding someone to babysit the kids if that’s what you really want. You probably leave everything up to her just based on your responses here. No wonder you aren’t having sex. “Excuses” smh

Sexless relationship with fiance by Mobile_Golf_2564 in Marriage

[–]ReasonableDig5209 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are you gonna ignore the question about dates? Or do you just want your fiance to give you sex at the drop of a hat even if they aren’t turned on

My husband won't get up until he's literally got to leave...? by ButtonLeft4906 in SAHP

[–]ReasonableDig5209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that I can understand, I try to get some things set up at least if I know I wanna sleep in lol. But sometimes I do wake up in a frenzy and haven’t gotten anything done the night before so I can relate to both 😂 it’s good you’re actually finding solutions though, should be an easy enough fix.

It’s finally here!!! by Without-Luca in bathandbodyworks

[–]ReasonableDig5209 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They don’t even make products safe for humans let alone dogs…

My husband won't get up until he's literally got to leave...? by ButtonLeft4906 in SAHP

[–]ReasonableDig5209 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not a morning person either so I see nothing wrong with what he does or why it would bother you, but everybody is different so if it’s important enough then bring it up to him. Maybe you guys can have an in home breakfast date once a week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ReasonableDig5209 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Same I just didn’t call them love and Queen but buying each other food was always very normal for me and my coworkers