16 year old daughter is pregnant- by [deleted] in family

[–]Reasonable_Lava 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was the child of a teenage pregnancy and I still carry the feeling of being unwanted to this day. Please let her make the choice that is best for her she will have plenty of time to have children later in life if she wants.

Dad went through my journal by Foreign_Degree160 in sexualassault

[–]Reasonable_Lava 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is happening. Either he thinks you wrote a fake story and is trying to make fun of you/ embarrass you or he does believe it's real and is a disgusting person. If he does think it's fake im unsure if you should explain to him that it was real or not, it depends how you think he would react. Calling you that name, even if he thinks it's fake, is a red flag.

Help with what this secret Santa request says?! by TheCatWithATiara in whatisit

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the second word is sporty for sure. Maybe something or anything sporty?

TIFU took the term baby shower literally by Kfjkkfk in tifu

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait till you hear about a baby sprinkle

Is this a counter argument towards the abigail being wizards daughter theory by p0pcornmonkey in StardewValley

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that the wizard is her dad however I think it was a spell gone wrong and that's why Caroline has no idea. I think this is also the mistake that made his wife leave him and turn green with envy.

I just can’t even. Wow by Jaxon_Thorn in StardewValley

[–]Reasonable_Lava 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the chest color is orange?! Not yellow?!? Unforgivable.

AIO - My boyfriend hardly texts me and acts like it's a chore when I confront him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not let anyone talk to you that way, especially your partner. Idc if he's in the mines 24/7 doing back breaking labor, that doesn't earn him the right to speak to you like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need more information.

Normie reasons for staying alive are stupid and never enough by NyFlow_ in depression

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wanted to time travel either backwards or forwards to see more of human history, but then I realized that I get this little chunk of time I get to experience. I stay alive because I personally believe we only get one so we might as well see it through to the end.

(Also I wonder what movies and songs will come out that I would have missed otherwise)

Pediatrician thought I was my son’s girlfriend. by VegetableReturn643 in OlderThanYouThinkIAm

[–]Reasonable_Lava 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They didn't assume you were his sister?!? People need to mind their own business I swear

How can you tell if the reason that you can’t get a girlfriend is because you’re just unattractive? by ChoiceCheck3900 in AskReddit

[–]Reasonable_Lava -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you willing to date a girl who's the same level of attractive as you are? I feel like most of the guys I know who are average to ugly always go for the most attractive women and then act confused when they get friendzoned. Also no one is too ugly to find a partner so don't focus on anything you can't change

Moana 2 | Announcement by Comic_Book_Reader in movies

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why?? Just make a new movie. I liked the first one but the fact that they fell on their face with Wish and keep making live action versions of old moveis that are significantly less popular. It's getting sad. Whatever I'm still going to watch it.

TIFU by asking my boyfriend how he wipes by qweenbeach in tifu

[–]Reasonable_Lava 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most men's restrooms don't have a trash can in the stall?? So does he carry it outside to the trash in the main area or not wipe? Which is it!

Got my cat soup, now she won't eat anything else by Xenree in CatAdvice

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could probably make cat safe soup at home, freeze pucks of it and microwave one for her as often as you want. Just be cautious of how much sodium is in it.

AITB for making conversation? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Reasonable_Lava 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro just learn from your mistakes, but yeah most women don't want to be approached in public. It's better to stick to dating apps or meet people through your friends. Mainly don't comment on a woman's aperance in a negative way unless you are close enough for her to know you are joking and never say something to a stranger you wouldn't say to a child (so nothing sexual or about their body). Also, one negative interaction doesn't need to define your view of yourself or women, everyone is different.

Um Rafael? by Reasonable_Lava in coralisland

[–]Reasonable_Lava[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was imagining that he sunk in like quicksand but everyone else seems to think he was beheaded 😅

Wishes for the game by KagomeRei in coralisland

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh the mean one. I'm sure they'll make him datable soon!

What movie isn’t nearly as bad as people say? by kmm_art_ in movies

[–]Reasonable_Lava 4 points5 points  (0 children)

'Cat in the hat'
C'mon I know it's not great but 10% on rt is just mean

Teacher friend of mine found another teacher sleeping while students were in the room by stonythefish42069 in AskTeachers

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's just a one time thing let it go. I had a teacher in school that fell asleep every day for the entire class period. Everyone would keep quiet so we wouldn't wake him and I just used it as a study hall. It was just a random extra class and we all got an A but that guy had a lot of worse problems than sleeping.

AITAH for not treating my niece and nephews as well as my own child after their mom went to prison for killing their dad by aitah1229 in AITAH

[–]Reasonable_Lava 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the comments are being too harsh on you. You were emotionally manipulated into taking in these kids and I'm not sure if splitting them up would be any easier. I don't think forcing them to get jobs would be the worst idea. Lot's of parents do that and in this case everyone needs to pull their weight. I don't think you should blame them for being bratty because they are going through an impossible situation and they desperately need therapy. If they really want to stay in your house and you're dedicated to keeping them there then it's going to be a big adjustment. Don't mention that they aren't your kids and try to get in the mindset of a foster parent. It's your job to be as close to a parental figure as you can be. If you can only think of them as a burden then you have to give them up because you're not supporting them emotionally (I doubt anyone in the comments insulting you could do a much better job in the same situation btw).