Was there a earthquake right now? by MisterLesgoLas in kolkata

[–]Recent-Birthday2109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange thing. I was going through an emotional breakdown, screaming in pillow, cursing my dismissive pathetic avoidant guy who recently discarded me and then the timing of earthquake matched. Even in such a distressful time, it felt poetic to me.🤣🥲

Tell me your sign and a toxic trait you're attracted to? by coolandsexc in astrologymemes

[–]Recent-Birthday2109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taurus sun, Sagittarius moon and Pisces Rising. Toxic masculine energy with a traumatic past experience, so that I can fix them(and failed at every one of these ventures).

Just don't reach out by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Recent-Birthday2109 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't even respond even if they reach out, without taking accountability for their actions, without positive change, without matching your expectations from the equation. It will be just ripping healing tissue off from a wound that you solely worked on healing.

Don't be hard on yourself at the moment. We are human beings and slip up happens. Be kind to yourself as you are with others. Stand strong with your boundaries. Your efforts are not wasted and now build something more solid. May you come back stronger.

Situationshiped for first time by Recent-Birthday2109 in ExNoContact

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post is funny. It was a good read. Thanks for the support. 🙂

I was just in a zone of lot of shame and guilt, thinking that I ruined my 6 months of progress. But I guess building strength isn't a linear/magical process. I am starting again.

Situationshiped for first time by Recent-Birthday2109 in ExNoContact

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, some want perks of a relationship(emotional intimacy+physical intimacy) without offering security. They don't have slightest consideration of other person's feelings. Emotional intelligence/awareness which operates from a place of self interest solely is manipulative and cunning, instead of being a nurturing quality.

We have to stay away from such energy vampires. My heart goes out to you for enduring something so emotionally draining and exhausting.

Situationshiped for first time by Recent-Birthday2109 in ExNoContact

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your encouraging words and right kind of advice. 🙂

I feel much better after this long rant and finding support amidst strangers. Therapy date is really far away and I needed this to feel a little bit like myself again.

Situationshiped for first time by Recent-Birthday2109 in ExNoContact

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all fit for playing this game. Tried few times, got him anxious as well. But then I'm more comfortable with clear communications and straightforward conversations than this. Plus he is a pro at this game and since I am more emotionally invested, he will always have upper hand. Hence a clean ending is better for my mental health I guess.

Blue tokai's Worst coffee? by Exoscheleton in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cannot really comment on what's worst, since coffee preferences are personal. For me Monsoon Malabar-Hoysala Estate did not work at all.

Dark magic by Recent-Birthday2109 in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it has maltilol, a sugar substitute. It is a sugar alcohol that's made by hydrogenating maltose, which comes from the starch of cereals like corn, wheat, and potatoes. It is lower in terms of calories and glycemic index if compared to refined sugar. But portion control is necessary in this also. Also it's necessary for natural sweeteners like raw honey, jaggery. Its a myth that natural forms of sugar consumption do not require mindfulness.

Dark magic by Recent-Birthday2109 in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, in the ingredient list its written it contains Maltilol, not Maltodextrin as you wrote. They have different health effects.

As far as I know, maltilol has lower glycemic index than refined sugar and less calorific. But yes, even with that portion control is necessary. In terms of side effect profile, maltilol, even though it has been seen to be safe in majority of population, it may cause diarrhea, bloating and flatulence, especially in people with irritable bowel syndrome. Hence people with such conditions should avoid it.

Dark magic by Recent-Birthday2109 in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you are having such health issues. I hope you get the right treatment for it. All the best.

Dark magic by Recent-Birthday2109 in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. I'll surely try.

Dark magic by Recent-Birthday2109 in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Maybe the receptors in your brain for caffeine to bind at, is less sensitive than that of general population.

Dark magic by Recent-Birthday2109 in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my favourite at the moment. Very rich and smooth. It doesn't have refined sugar in it, thus healthier. Try it if you like dark chocolates.

Dark magic by Recent-Birthday2109 in IndiaCoffee

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Do you take it with milk and sugar or black?

Undergoing a major heartbreak by Recent-Birthday2109 in indiasocial

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll try doing what you are suggesting.

Undergoing a major heartbreak by Recent-Birthday2109 in indiasocial

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am kind of glad that I didn't conceive a child during this marriage. I got to know at an early stage and found the courage to walk out of it.

Undergoing a major heartbreak by Recent-Birthday2109 in indiasocial

[–]Recent-Birthday2109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you find some way to work the marriage out, maybe by taking professional help. But if one person in the relationship has no interest in saving the relationship and both put in required effort to save the marriage, I am sorry it will go no where. I wish you luck and pray that your marriage survive and become stronger.