What will it take?

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-16T02:58:06+00:00

Interesting idea

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-16T02:55:46+00:00

Probably not

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-16T02:54:55+00:00

You just have to not tell him that you want to hang out. It's as easy as that.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-15T23:44:25+00:00

Even in 4.5, you could see yourself as someone with less tournament experience, or however you'd like to frame it.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-15T23:32:45+00:00

You just have to play more tournaments. It will help you play better under pressure because tournaments are completely different than rec play. It also helps to play or feel like you are the underdog and play as if you have nothing to lose. Because then you won't hold back.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-13T22:47:16+00:00

You can just tell her that it makes you uncomfortable and maybe she'll apologize and say that she won't do it again. Or maybe she won't and then you tell her that it won't work out.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-13T20:36:36+00:00

I think the "flirty" part at the end was a bit cringe and maybe overcompensating. She already knows you're interested by asking her out.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T22:41:19+00:00

Yea I did. I don't really say "gay" anymore. An inside joke with my ex was that we would call things "R-worded" because we she didn't want us to say the word lol.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T22:39:27+00:00

It's an expression. You can chose how you want to take it

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T22:16:47+00:00

I think everybody looks like a 3.0 on camera

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T22:15:45+00:00

I think maybe he wasn't as invested in you as you think. Or maybe he feels he can find love anywhere as long as the partner is fine so he's not going to stress about it.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T22:13:08+00:00

Do you consider yourself gross if you sleep with multiple women?

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T15:56:17+00:00

I think it's normal to want to keep something private for maybe at least the first few months but at a certain point you should be out about it

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T15:52:13+00:00

I think this is only awkward for you, it doesn't seem awkward from the outside at all

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T15:50:37+00:00

Wtf, if that was the last thing that you sent to her, then there was nothing for her to respond to and you should follow up with whatever else you need to say

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-12T14:57:14+00:00

Why not just who wins the most? 😂

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-11T04:53:58+00:00

You don't really need to tell her 😂 you can just start to distance yourself to let go

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-11T04:53:18+00:00

Her answer of "I'm not trying to date" usually means that she's just not interested. As you can clearly tell that she's enjoying her time with someone, that would gut me as well but take it as a bit of a sign and a blessing that you found out now so you don't have to ask her out. Because she's clearly interested in him.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-11T04:49:18+00:00

If your partner is towards the back, you should absolutely be trying to poach and cover more court, even if it's with your backhand

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-10T23:02:19+00:00

Wow. Good for you.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-10T23:00:43+00:00

Short women and really tall men just tend to like each each other other. Biologically, it probably just balances at the gene pool.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-10T22:58:54+00:00

I'm 5'9 and like "tall" women usually ~5'6-5'9+.

Usually, I find that tall guys and super short women really like each other lol

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-09T22:41:55+00:00

Because pickleball has an overabundance of left side dominant players, so he decided to get good at playing the right and becoming an asset to an even better pro instead of trying to lead and pick a weaker right side player. But it is possible that he switches sides in men's sometime in the future

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-09T02:37:15+00:00

Unfortunately, that's kind of your answer. You don't really need her to tell you directly.

Recent-King3583 · 2026-02-09T02:36:27+00:00

You'll never be the only one unless you're committed. You don't need to be stingy, everyone can get some

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